97% Effective

Learn more about Michael Wenderoth, Executive Coach: www.changwenderoth.com “If you want the social benefits of being authentic, how you feel inside may have very little to do with it.” At work, we like to believe we’re evaluated on substance. In reality, we’re constantly being judged on how we perform— how authentic we seem, how prepared we appear, and how natural we look like in our role. In this episode of 97% Effective, host Michael Wenderoth speaks with Alexa Samaniego, Presentation Coach and Doctoral Researcher at Stanford University, about how we judge performances and performers — and why those judgments matter far more than most people realize. Drawing from behavioral research, one-on-one presentation coaching, and her background in theater and the performing arts, Alexa challenges some of the most comforting things we believe (“just be yourself,” “don’t over-rehearse,” “there’s universal best practices for presenting”) and replaces them with a more honest view of how credibility, competence, and connection are actually earned. This is not an episode about becoming fake. But it will get you thinking differently about how you show up at work if you want to better influence outcomes. You’ll leave this episode with a much more realistic understanding of how you’re really judged — and how to work with that reality, rather than against it. SHOW NOTES Alexa’s path from theater and the creative arts to doctoral research and presentation coachingHow her background in performance shapes the research questions she studiesWhat organizational behavior research looks like in practice: an overview of the PhD arcWhy most people under-rehearse presentations — despite clear benefits of repetitionWhy fear of “sounding fake” leads people to underperformAlexa’s two distinct definitions of authenticity: authentic to self vs. authentic to roleWhy being perceived as authentic matters more than feeling authenticSpontaneity and consistency as two key drivers of being seen as authenticHow researchers measure authenticity and test perceptions in lab and field settingsThe uncomfortable truth: social benefits depend on how you come across, not how you feelWhy we are always playing roles at work — and why separating intentions from behaviors matters“It only feels inauthentic because it’s not habitual yet”Insights from actors on how to step into a role without losing yourselfThe “outside-in” effect: how dress, voice, and physical behavior shape perceptionTradeoffs between authenticity, polish, and competence at workAlexa’s third research stream: the double-edged sword of being (and looking) preparedWhen preparation signals competence — and when it backfires as “trying too hard”Why “everything depends”: how Alexa’s coaching changed after doing her researchHow universal presentation advice can fail across gender, culture, and contextDrawing from the outside world: how Alexa’s theater background differentiates her research lensHorror films, storytelling, and what they reveal about authenticity and self-expressionAlexa’s hard truth: research is powerful, but techniques must be practiced before being used in high-stakes settings  BIO AND LINKS Alexa Samaniego is a Presentation Coach and a doctoral researcher in Organizational Behavior (Micro) at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. Her research is inspired by her background in theatre and the performing arts, and examines how speakers and audiences judge others. Her research informs her work as a presentation coach in the Stanford Oral Communication Program and with TEDxStanford. Prior to beginning her PhD, Alexa worked as a research associate at Achievers Workforce Institute and Columbia Business School. She received her BS in Business Psychology from UC San Diego and her MS in Applied Psychology from San Diego State University. Alexa also specializes in portrait photography and creating short horror films. Connect with Alexa LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexa-samaniego/Email: alexasam [at] stanford.eduWebsite: https://www.alexasamaniego.comStanford Profile: https://profiles.stanford.edu/alexa-samaniego People, Ideas and Films Referenced Erving Goffman:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erving_GoffmanYasmin Williams (double-necked guitar performance): https://www.yasminwilliamsmusic.com/media-horizonCovering, the concept (Wharton): https://tinyurl.com/353c7p8u1408, horror film: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0450385/Erica Bailey: https://haas.berkeley.edu/faculty/erica-r-bailey/Brian Lowery: https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/faculty-research/faculty/brian-loweryBenoît Monin: https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/faculty-research/faculty/benoit-moninAlexa’s short films Too Late and 5 Weeks to Transform Your Life: https://www.alexasamaniego.com/art More from 97% Effective Michael’s Award-winning Book: Get Promoted: What You’re Really Missing at Work That’s Holding You Back: https://tinyurl.com/453txk74Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@97PercentEffective Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy