Permission to Pivot
Sun Nov 16 2025
Some days, it feels impossible to keep up with the timelines, the pressures and expectations — it all becomes too loud.
And then, someone comes along who reminds you that you are allowed to live many lives in one lifetime — and none of them have to make sense to anyone else but you.
That’s what today’s conversation with multidimensional mami, Mackenzie of @onthematwithmack brings:
a breath of authenticity and honesty, a gut check, and the exact reminder you need if you’ve been questioning your direction, your goodness, your purpose, or the pace of your life.
In this raw and grounded episode, we talk about what it really means to change your mind, pivot, forgive, start over, follow the pull, and trust that your life is allowed to look different every season.
We chat:
Why living multiple lives is normal (and actually healthy)The real reason we fear pivoting, even when it feels rightHow to release the “right timeline” myth and trust your own paceWhat to do when your past identities feel embarrassing or confusingThe grief, liberation and process of friendship breakupsHow to use curiosity > fear when starting something newThe power of sacred feminine angerHow to stay human off and online while being perceived
This episode isn’t just a conversation. It’s a reset — a reminder that you’re allowed to grow, quit, begin again, unravel, bloom, and reinvent without needing to justify any of it.
If you’re in a season of transition, confusion, or reinvention… this one is for you.
Also, if you loved this episode, check out: Shedding, Syncing, Surrendering, Oh My!
Connect with me on socials:
INSTA: @asoftplacetolandpod
TIKTOK: @asoftplacetolandpod
Timestamps:
00:00 - new podcast intro and mackenzie’s intro
01:20 - curiosity over fear
04:30 - resources and risk taking
07:00 - lore of life and multidimensionality
10:10 - dream jobs don’t exist
12:40 - evolving through eras
14:30 - creating peace with uncertain timelines
18:50 - fear based decisions and cycles
22:14 - the impact of perception and being human
26:30 - testament to your self-trust
30:10 - grounding in your sense of self
34:11 - navigating the impact of friendship breakups
37:08 - shining a light on personal strength
40:34 - embracing complex self-compassion
43:20 - sacred feminine anger
45:50 - autoimmune connection to feminine suppression
47:37 - self expression for your soul
50:30 - connecting with your wild woman archetype
52:17 - matriarchal medicine
55:17 - feminine somatic embodiment
57:15 - healing through healthy relationships
#healing #feminineenergy #multidimensonality #personalgrowth #selfcompassion
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Some days, it feels impossible to keep up with the timelines, the pressures and expectations — it all becomes too loud. And then, someone comes along who reminds you that you are allowed to live many lives in one lifetime — and none of them have to make sense to anyone else but you. That’s what today’s conversation with multidimensional mami, Mackenzie of @onthematwithmack brings: a breath of authenticity and honesty, a gut check, and the exact reminder you need if you’ve been questioning your direction, your goodness, your purpose, or the pace of your life. In this raw and grounded episode, we talk about what it really means to change your mind, pivot, forgive, start over, follow the pull, and trust that your life is allowed to look different every season. We chat: Why living multiple lives is normal (and actually healthy)The real reason we fear pivoting, even when it feels rightHow to release the “right timeline” myth and trust your own paceWhat to do when your past identities feel embarrassing or confusingThe grief, liberation and process of friendship breakupsHow to use curiosity > fear when starting something newThe power of sacred feminine angerHow to stay human off and online while being perceived This episode isn’t just a conversation. It’s a reset — a reminder that you’re allowed to grow, quit, begin again, unravel, bloom, and reinvent without needing to justify any of it. If you’re in a season of transition, confusion, or reinvention… this one is for you. Also, if you loved this episode, check out: Shedding, Syncing, Surrendering, Oh My! Connect with me on socials: INSTA: @asoftplacetolandpod TIKTOK: @asoftplacetolandpod Timestamps: 00:00 - new podcast intro and mackenzie’s intro 01:20 - curiosity over fear 04:30 - resources and risk taking 07:00 - lore of life and multidimensionality 10:10 - dream jobs don’t exist 12:40 - evolving through eras 14:30 - creating peace with uncertain timelines 18:50 - fear based decisions and cycles 22:14 - the impact of perception and being human 26:30 - testament to your self-trust 30:10 - grounding in your sense of self 34:11 - navigating the impact of friendship breakups 37:08 - shining a light on personal strength 40:34 - embracing complex self-compassion 43:20 - sacred feminine anger 45:50 - autoimmune connection to feminine suppression 47:37 - self expression for your soul 50:30 - connecting with your wild woman archetype 52:17 - matriarchal medicine 55:17 - feminine somatic embodiment 57:15 - healing through healthy relationships #healing #feminineenergy #multidimensonality #personalgrowth #selfcompassion