Episode 267: How to Work with a Family After Loss - It is all About Them and Gratitude
Tue Feb 03 2026
When donors experience loss, the instinct to “do something” can quietly turn into pressure—yet the most meaningful work in these moments has nothing to do with closing a gift. Gratitude after loss is not transactional; it is deeply emotional, relational, and rooted in honoring experience, memory, and connection. Whether in healthcare, education, or social service, people give because of how they were treated, not simply what happened. The best gift officers know when to speak, when to listen, and when silence itself is the greatest form of respect. If we lead with compassion instead of urgency, relationships grow—and philanthropy follows naturally.
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When donors experience loss, the instinct to “do something” can quietly turn into pressure—yet the most meaningful work in these moments has nothing to do with closing a gift. Gratitude after loss is not transactional; it is deeply emotional, relational, and rooted in honoring experience, memory, and connection. Whether in healthcare, education, or social service, people give because of how they were treated, not simply what happened. The best gift officers know when to speak, when to listen, and when silence itself is the greatest form of respect. If we lead with compassion instead of urgency, relationships grow—and philanthropy follows naturally.