#77 You Don’t Need Better Goals. You Need a New Identity.
Thu Dec 25 2025
What if the reason your goals don’t stick has nothing to do with discipline… and everything to do with identity?
In this episode, “You Don’t Need Better Goals. You Need a New Identity,” I talk about something that might feel uncomfortable at first—but can completely change how you approach your life, your work, and your future.
For years, I did what most of us do: setting goals, vision boards, New Year resolutions… and watching them quietly disappear. Until one day I realized the problem wasn’t the plan.
It was the version of myself trying to carry a future she had already outgrown.
This conversation is about reinvention from the inside out.
About embodiment, alignment, and why true expansion doesn’t start with doing more—but with being different.
If you feel tired of forcing motivation, of starting over every January, of pushing through goals that no longer feel true… this episode is for you.
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What if the reason your goals don’t stick has nothing to do with discipline… and everything to do with identity? In this episode, “You Don’t Need Better Goals. You Need a New Identity,” I talk about something that might feel uncomfortable at first—but can completely change how you approach your life, your work, and your future. For years, I did what most of us do: setting goals, vision boards, New Year resolutions… and watching them quietly disappear. Until one day I realized the problem wasn’t the plan. It was the version of myself trying to carry a future she had already outgrown. This conversation is about reinvention from the inside out. About embodiment, alignment, and why true expansion doesn’t start with doing more—but with being different. If you feel tired of forcing motivation, of starting over every January, of pushing through goals that no longer feel true… this episode is for you.