I’m doing the inner work, why don’t I feel confident yet? with Stephanie Thoma
Tue Jan 27 2026
You’ve read the books.
You’ve done the healing.
You’re trying to be authentic and honest and real…
So why doesn’t confidence feel like it’s caught up yet?
In this episode, we talk about the part of the inner work journey that no one really prepares you for, the space where you know you’re growing, but you still feel unsure, hesitant, or invisible in your voice and leadership.
This conversation gently reframes confidence, not as something you force or perform, but as something that emerges through clarity, self-trust, and permission to be who you already are.
We also explore Human Design as a tool for understanding why confidence doesn’t look the same for everyone. As a Projector, her design isn’t about pushing harder or proving more, it’s about seeing clearly, guiding wisely, and trusting that her perspective has value. Projectors are natural guides. They’re here to notice patterns, offer insight, and lead through clarity, and when they try to build confidence the same way others do, it can feel exhausting and discouraging.
This episode is for you if:
You’ve been doing the inner work but still don’t feel confident yetYou feel pressure to be louder, bolder, or more certain than feels naturalYou want to trust your voice without forcing itYou’re learning that confidence might come from knowing yourself, not fixing yourselfThis is a reminder that confidence doesn’t arrive all at once, it grows as you honor your design, your timing, and the wisdom you already carry.
You’re not behind.
You’re becoming clearer.
SPEND MORE TIME WITH COURTNEYJoin the ROI of Peace Mastermind:
https://roiofpeace.com/roimastermind
Pull Your Human Design Chart:
https://roiofpeace.com/humandesignchart
CONNECT WITH STEPHANIE THOMASVisibility Sprint:
https://stephaniethoma.com/resources/
Clarity Call for Introverted Speakers:
https://stephaniethoma.com/resources/
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You’ve read the books. You’ve done the healing. You’re trying to be authentic and honest and real… So why doesn’t confidence feel like it’s caught up yet? In this episode, we talk about the part of the inner work journey that no one really prepares you for, the space where you know you’re growing, but you still feel unsure, hesitant, or invisible in your voice and leadership. This conversation gently reframes confidence, not as something you force or perform, but as something that emerges through clarity, self-trust, and permission to be who you already are. We also explore Human Design as a tool for understanding why confidence doesn’t look the same for everyone. As a Projector, her design isn’t about pushing harder or proving more, it’s about seeing clearly, guiding wisely, and trusting that her perspective has value. Projectors are natural guides. They’re here to notice patterns, offer insight, and lead through clarity, and when they try to build confidence the same way others do, it can feel exhausting and discouraging. This episode is for you if: You’ve been doing the inner work but still don’t feel confident yetYou feel pressure to be louder, bolder, or more certain than feels naturalYou want to trust your voice without forcing itYou’re learning that confidence might come from knowing yourself, not fixing yourselfThis is a reminder that confidence doesn’t arrive all at once, it grows as you honor your design, your timing, and the wisdom you already carry. You’re not behind. You’re becoming clearer. SPEND MORE TIME WITH COURTNEYJoin the ROI of Peace Mastermind: https://roiofpeace.com/roimastermind Pull Your Human Design Chart: https://roiofpeace.com/humandesignchart CONNECT WITH STEPHANIE THOMASVisibility Sprint: https://stephaniethoma.com/resources/ Clarity Call for Introverted Speakers: https://stephaniethoma.com/resources/