How to Learn in Alignment with How Your Brain Actually Works
Fri Jan 30 2026
Learning the “right way” isn’t about trying harder, it’s about learning smarter.
Lauren Waldman, a learning scientist and self-proclaimed “learning pirate,” spent over a decade in teaching and corporate learning, but it wasn’t until she dove into the neuroscience of the brain that everything clicked. We unpack how to learn in alignment with how your brain actually works, and in a way you can put into practice immediately. Lauren reminds us that most of us were never taught how to learn, and she introduces a simple metacognition framework: What do I know? What don’t I know? And what do I think I know that might be wrong?
We explore stepping into discomfort, because growth happens when your brain is challenged, and Lauren encourages treating learning like a personal experiment. She helps you drill down on why you’re learning something, which keeps your efforts strategic, intentional, and way less overwhelming in a world full of endless resources.
Key Takeaways:
Learning works best when you are intentional and focused, not just consuming information.
Ask yourself what you know, what you don’t, and what you might think you know to guide your learning.
Growth comes from leaning into discomfort, even when your brain resists.
Treat learning like an experiment: try, fail, adjust, and repeat to build skill and confidence.
Focus is a skill you can train with attention exercises to learn more efficiently.
Knowing your “why” keeps you motivated and helps you choose what to focus on.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
02:44 What is a ‘learning scientist’?
04:47 How to learn in a way that aligns with how your brain is wired
08:24 3 questions to ask yourself when learning something new
11:41 Choosing resources that support real learning, not false comfort
15:36 Why learning feels so hard even when you're doing everything right
19:29 What comfort does to your brain
26:12 A real example of skills, focus, and metacognition working together
31:43 Moments of YARR
35:06 Working through perfectionism
38:50 What becomes possible when you stop fighting your brain and start partnering with it
Resources Mentioned:Joining Forces with Your Brain: https://www.learningpirate.com/joining-forces-with-your-brain
The Creative Way by Rick Reuben: https://www.amazon.com/Creative-Act-Way-Being/dp/0593652886
Connect with Lauren:
Website: https://www.learningpirate.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-waldman-4666bab/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learning_pirate/
Connect with Me:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyannclark08/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buildingthinkers/
Building Thinkers Newsletter: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf
More About Building Thinkers:
I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build.
And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved.
If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.
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Learning the “right way” isn’t about trying harder, it’s about learning smarter. Lauren Waldman, a learning scientist and self-proclaimed “learning pirate,” spent over a decade in teaching and corporate learning, but it wasn’t until she dove into the neuroscience of the brain that everything clicked. We unpack how to learn in alignment with how your brain actually works, and in a way you can put into practice immediately. Lauren reminds us that most of us were never taught how to learn, and she introduces a simple metacognition framework: What do I know? What don’t I know? And what do I think I know that might be wrong? We explore stepping into discomfort, because growth happens when your brain is challenged, and Lauren encourages treating learning like a personal experiment. She helps you drill down on why you’re learning something, which keeps your efforts strategic, intentional, and way less overwhelming in a world full of endless resources. Key Takeaways: Learning works best when you are intentional and focused, not just consuming information. Ask yourself what you know, what you don’t, and what you might think you know to guide your learning. Growth comes from leaning into discomfort, even when your brain resists. Treat learning like an experiment: try, fail, adjust, and repeat to build skill and confidence. Focus is a skill you can train with attention exercises to learn more efficiently. Knowing your “why” keeps you motivated and helps you choose what to focus on. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:44 What is a ‘learning scientist’? 04:47 How to learn in a way that aligns with how your brain is wired 08:24 3 questions to ask yourself when learning something new 11:41 Choosing resources that support real learning, not false comfort 15:36 Why learning feels so hard even when you're doing everything right 19:29 What comfort does to your brain 26:12 A real example of skills, focus, and metacognition working together 31:43 Moments of YARR 35:06 Working through perfectionism 38:50 What becomes possible when you stop fighting your brain and start partnering with it Resources Mentioned:Joining Forces with Your Brain: https://www.learningpirate.com/joining-forces-with-your-brain The Creative Way by Rick Reuben: https://www.amazon.com/Creative-Act-Way-Being/dp/0593652886 Connect with Lauren: Website: https://www.learningpirate.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-waldman-4666bab/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/learning_pirate/ Connect with Me: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyannclark08/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buildingthinkers/ Building Thinkers Newsletter: https://building-thinkers.kit.com/24cdc43dcf More About Building Thinkers: I'm your host, Tracy Clark, and this is where potential becomes reality through deliberate curiosity, reflection, practice, and play. The Building Thinkers podcast is based on the realization that there's exponential potential in the things we build. And so, in my little corner of the internet and podcasting land, I want to take my 12 favorite problems, these are my constant curiosities, and I want to go deeper. I want to build thinkers. This is a community of multi-potentialites who may be disoriented by all the possibilities of success we envision but haven't yet achieved. If any of that sounds like you, come listen in. Welcome to the Building Thinkers podcast.