Crown Yourself

What if the reason you feel exhausted isn’t because you’re doing too much… but because you’re doing it with something to prove? In this powerful audio-only drop, we’re talking about proving energy—that invisible force that whispers, “Let me show them. Let me be enough. Let me win their approval.” And Queen… that energy is rooted in fear, not sovereignty. I share personal stories from my early entrepreneurial journey—being the only young woman in masculine business rooms, carrying the weight of needing to prove I belonged. And I’ve seen it time and time again with high-performing leaders and conscious entrepreneurs: when your business becomes a battlefield for validation, burnout isn’t far behind. This episode is your invitation to shift from ego-driven proving into true self-worth, the kind that makes you resilient, magnetic, and unshakable. We explore how self-worth isn’t built through performative success or “pick me” hustle… but through self-integrity, keeping commitments to yourself, and embodying the frequency of a woman who already owns her throne. If you’re ready for soulful leadership, conscious business growth, and a deeper manifestation rooted in sovereignty—not survival—this one is for you. Own your throne. Mind your business. Because your reign is now. Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: “Proving energy is rooted in fear… and anything rooted in fear can burn you out.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “You don’t have to prove something if you deeply believe you are worthy.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   “Look yourself in the mirror and remember: you’re a queen.” ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: 00:00 — Welcome Back + Audio-Only Episode for OG Listeners Setting the space for a special Crown Yourself drop 00:32 — What Is “Proving Energy”? (The Hidden Mindset Keeping You Stuck) Breaking down the “pick me / watch me” hustle frequency 01:20 — Proving Energy Is Rooted in Fear (Not True Confidence) Why ego-driven ambition leads to burnout and overwhelm 02:10 — The Burnout Pattern High-Achieving Entrepreneurs Repeat How entrepreneurs build businesses from pain instead of purpose 03:05 — Personal Story: Being the Only Young Woman in the Room Kimberly shares her early leadership experience in masculine industries 04:15 — When Success Becomes About Showing Them… You Lose Yourself The danger of building from validation instead of sovereignty 05:05 — Ego vs Self-Worth: The Internal Shift That Changes Everything Why you don’t need to prove yourself when you know you’re worthy 06:10 — The “Rubber Effect”: When Criticism Stops Hooking You How emotional resilience is the real sign of healed self-worth 07:25 — Self-Worth Practices That Actually Work (Self-Integrity > Self-Care) Keeping commitments to yourself as the foundation of confidence 08:35 — Stop Performing, Start Reigning (Sovereign Leadership Reminder) Owning your throne in business, body, and life 09:20 — Final Blessing + Call to Share the Episode Creating a royal ripple through sovereignty and conscious growth   Transcript: For a full episode transcript, it can be found here. Sharables: For sharable images, quotes, and other social media posts to add some royal sparkle to your socials (with proper tagging and credit, of course), they can be found here.   ____________   📺  YOUTUBE TIPS PLAYLISTS:     The Crown Yourself Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZwctt-09Yk&list=PL2ClsckBxxujcpec_c4m-haGSeWZkfNmP    Becoming the Queen-B(usiness) of Yo’ Biz:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEircICw4o0&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhTAZNjo3wKa84gAgJAgpBB   Podcasting Queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fWLm9j9TSPE&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhIznCt03xcCIR-caCZBads    Conscious Leadership Queen:: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R35hokbpIJI&list=PL2ClsckBxxuhJqGJuF9kqCg-UfBwZzI_o  🙌🏼 MORE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU BUILD YOUR EMPIRE + CROWN YOURSELF  🙌🏼   Get booked on podcasts + turn guest podcasting into getting clients when you join then Communication Queens Agency: https://www.communicationqueens.com     Want to get Kimberly Spencer on your podcast? 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