23 – The End of the Hero: Why the Smartest Person in the Room is Often the Most Limited
Fri Feb 06 2026
Your host Alex Shevelenko welcomes Stephen Josephs, a pioneer in adult development and the co-author of the seminal book Leadership Agility. With over 40 years of experience as an executive coach, Stephen helps senior leaders navigate high-pressure environments by recognizing the inner patterns that drive their behavior. A lifelong practitioner of meditation and Tai Chi, Stephen brings a unique blend of Taoist wisdom and developmental psychology to the world’s most established organizations.
In this conversation, Stephen gets practical about the "internal" work of leadership. He explores the transition from "Heroic" leadership—where the leader must be the smartest person in the room—to "Post-Heroic" agility, where curiosity and collective intelligence take center stage. Stephen shares a powerful role-playing technique to dissolve conflict, explains why "getting over yourself" is the ultimate competitive advantage, and reveals how pre-verbal childhood patterns often act as the hidden "fuel" behind an overachiever’s drive.
From his "When Harry Met Sally" moment with a meditation teacher to the day he turned down a Hollywood movie deal to protect his sense of self, Stephen’s stories illustrate a path to leadership that is grounded in radical honesty and self-trust. This episode shows how leadings from a place of "stillness" can drive better results for your team, your culture, and your own well-being.
To continue the conversation with Stephen, connect with him at stephenjosephs.com.
Think you’d be a great guest on the show? Apply HERE.
To learn more about RELAYTO, visit: relayto.com
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Your host Alex Shevelenko welcomes Stephen Josephs, a pioneer in adult development and the co-author of the seminal book Leadership Agility. With over 40 years of experience as an executive coach, Stephen helps senior leaders navigate high-pressure environments by recognizing the inner patterns that drive their behavior. A lifelong practitioner of meditation and Tai Chi, Stephen brings a unique blend of Taoist wisdom and developmental psychology to the world’s most established organizations. In this conversation, Stephen gets practical about the "internal" work of leadership. He explores the transition from "Heroic" leadership—where the leader must be the smartest person in the room—to "Post-Heroic" agility, where curiosity and collective intelligence take center stage. Stephen shares a powerful role-playing technique to dissolve conflict, explains why "getting over yourself" is the ultimate competitive advantage, and reveals how pre-verbal childhood patterns often act as the hidden "fuel" behind an overachiever’s drive. From his "When Harry Met Sally" moment with a meditation teacher to the day he turned down a Hollywood movie deal to protect his sense of self, Stephen’s stories illustrate a path to leadership that is grounded in radical honesty and self-trust. This episode shows how leadings from a place of "stillness" can drive better results for your team, your culture, and your own well-being. To continue the conversation with Stephen, connect with him at stephenjosephs.com. Think you’d be a great guest on the show? Apply HERE. To learn more about RELAYTO, visit: relayto.com