HOW THE INFJ KEEPS UNAVAILABLE PEOPLE HOOKED
Wed Feb 04 2026
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If you are an INFJ, this pattern is not random and it is not your fault.
In this episode, we explore why INFJs so often end up with unavailable partners and connections, and what is actually happening beneath the surface.
You will learn how empathy, intuition, and seeing potential can quietly pull you into one-sided dynamics, and how to break the pattern without becoming closed off or hard.
In this episode, you will learn:
• Why INFJs focus on potential instead of presence
• How empathy can unintentionally enable emotional unavailability
• The hidden cost of one-sided effort
• How to set boundaries early without guilt
• Why filling emotional gaps keeps you stuck
• How to choose clarity over hope
Breaking this cycle is not about giving less love. It is about directing it where it can be met.
If this resonates, you are not alone. And there is a way out that still honors who you are.Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes
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FREE Poster - INFJ EPIC RELATIONSHIPS CHECKLIST:👉 https://infjrelationships.gr8.com/_All INFJ EPIC LIFE Programs: 👉 https://programs.wenzes.com/collections_Work with me 1-on-1 for personalized support:👉 https://1-on-1-coaching.wenzes.com/_INFJ lesson: Do you keep attracting people who are emotionally distant, inconsistent, or never fully available, no matter how deeply you care? If you are an INFJ, this pattern is not random and it is not your fault. In this episode, we explore why INFJs so often end up with unavailable partners and connections, and what is actually happening beneath the surface. You will learn how empathy, intuition, and seeing potential can quietly pull you into one-sided dynamics, and how to break the pattern without becoming closed off or hard. In this episode, you will learn: • Why INFJs focus on potential instead of presence • How empathy can unintentionally enable emotional unavailability • The hidden cost of one-sided effort • How to set boundaries early without guilt • Why filling emotional gaps keeps you stuck • How to choose clarity over hope Breaking this cycle is not about giving less love. It is about directing it where it can be met. If this resonates, you are not alone. And there is a way out that still honors who you are.Free Resources: https://wenzes.com/INFJ-Free-Resource/Website: http://www.wenzes.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wenzes_Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachWenzes