You’re Not Too Much, You Just Don’t Know Who You Are Yet
Wed Dec 10 2025
hey pookies, In this episode, we’re talking about something most of us quietly struggle with — not knowing who we truly are. When you don’t have a strong self-concept, you overthink every conversation, adjust your personality to fit the room, and end up feeling drained, unseen, and disconnected from yourself.I share my own experience with shape-shifting, people-pleasing, and constantly performing just to be accepted… and how I’m learning to build a grounded, consistent sense of identity. If you’ve ever walked into a room and felt yourself shifting, shrinking, or exaggerating to belong, this episode is for you.We’re diving into:— what a self-concept actually is— signs yours might be weak— why so many of us lose our identity— how to rebuild a strong, stable idea of who you are— how to stop performing and start living as your real selfIf you’ve been feeling confused, drained, or unsure of who you are becoming, this will help you come back home to yourself. overthinking, people-pleasing, shape-shifting, or changing your personality depending on the room, this episode breaks down how to build a strong self-concept and show up as your authentic self. We talk about confidence, inner peace, self-awareness, emotional maturity, healing, mindset shifts, and becoming the most grounded version of yourself. Perfect for viewers interested in self-development, personal growth, and becoming “that girl” without performing for others
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hey pookies, In this episode, we’re talking about something most of us quietly struggle with — not knowing who we truly are. When you don’t have a strong self-concept, you overthink every conversation, adjust your personality to fit the room, and end up feeling drained, unseen, and disconnected from yourself.I share my own experience with shape-shifting, people-pleasing, and constantly performing just to be accepted… and how I’m learning to build a grounded, consistent sense of identity. If you’ve ever walked into a room and felt yourself shifting, shrinking, or exaggerating to belong, this episode is for you.We’re diving into:— what a self-concept actually is— signs yours might be weak— why so many of us lose our identity— how to rebuild a strong, stable idea of who you are— how to stop performing and start living as your real selfIf you’ve been feeling confused, drained, or unsure of who you are becoming, this will help you come back home to yourself. overthinking, people-pleasing, shape-shifting, or changing your personality depending on the room, this episode breaks down how to build a strong self-concept and show up as your authentic self. We talk about confidence, inner peace, self-awareness, emotional maturity, healing, mindset shifts, and becoming the most grounded version of yourself. Perfect for viewers interested in self-development, personal growth, and becoming “that girl” without performing for others