S5/EP18: To Be Seen Is To Be Loved | Why Feeling Unseen Hurts & How To Find Yourself Again
Wed Jan 28 2026
To be seen is to be loved — but what does that actually mean?
In this episode of Latinaly, I unpack why so many of us feel unseen even in relationships where love exists, and why effort without attunement can still leave people feeling invisible.
From viral holiday videos to everyday moments of disappointment, this conversation explores the difference between being included and being recognized. We talk about why feeling unseen hurts so deeply, how being misseen impacts self-worth, and why learning to truly see yourself is an act of love.
This episode is for anyone who’s felt misunderstood, overlooked, or emotionally missed — and is ready to find grounding, clarity, and connection from the inside out.
Topics include:
What “being seen” really means
Why good intentions don’t always translate to emotional connection
The difference between being loved and being understood
How self-awareness changes the way we experience relationships
Why seeing yourself first is the foundation of healing
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To be seen is to be loved — but what does that actually mean? In this episode of Latinaly, I unpack why so many of us feel unseen even in relationships where love exists, and why effort without attunement can still leave people feeling invisible. From viral holiday videos to everyday moments of disappointment, this conversation explores the difference between being included and being recognized. We talk about why feeling unseen hurts so deeply, how being misseen impacts self-worth, and why learning to truly see yourself is an act of love. This episode is for anyone who’s felt misunderstood, overlooked, or emotionally missed — and is ready to find grounding, clarity, and connection from the inside out. Topics include: What “being seen” really means Why good intentions don’t always translate to emotional connection The difference between being loved and being understood How self-awareness changes the way we experience relationships Why seeing yourself first is the foundation of healing _FOLLOW LATINALY:LATINALY ON INSTAGRAM LATINALY ON TIKTOK LATINALY ON FACEBOOK Be on the next Signed, Kiah:NGL LINK OR KIAHBURGOS.COM/ASK LATINALY MERCH FOLLOW KIAH:TIKTOK INSTAGRAM