Episode #207: Why Fantasizing Feels Normal
Sun Feb 01 2026
Your brain isn’t broken. You’re living inside a neurological environment built by chronic overstimulation.
What feels “normal” today is engineered. Algorithms train your nervous system to expect reward without effort — and over time, your brain’s effort system goes offline.
When stimulation replaces engagement, motivation drops, focus fractures, emotional regulation weakens, and desire shuts down.
That’s not a discipline problem.
It’s a nervous system state.
In this Supernormal conversation, you’ll understand:
• Why overstimulation rewires effort, desire, and regulation
• Why habit change fails when the nervous system is dysregulated
• Why porn use and dopamine loops flatten real-world reward
• How miswiring shows up as low motivation, anxiety, ED, or shutdown
Real change doesn’t start with willpower.
It starts with seeing how your brain adapts.
Why Fantasizing Feels Normal 🤔👉 If you want clarity instead of guessing, brain mapping shows what’s actually happening — and how regulation restores capacity, start with a brain map at https://drtrishleigh.com/
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Hi. I am Dr. Trish Leigh, a Cognitive Neuroscientist, and Sex Addiction Recovery Coach. I am on a mission to help people heal their brains from porn use.
My podcasts are designed to help you learn that:
🎯Porn Damages Your Brain,
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🎯Porn Destroys Your Relationships.
Subscribe to this channel for 🧠 tips to:
✅Quit Porn for Good
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If you need more help, I can work directly with you.
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https://drtrishleigh.com/
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Your brain isn’t broken. You’re living inside a neurological environment built by chronic overstimulation. What feels “normal” today is engineered. Algorithms train your nervous system to expect reward without effort — and over time, your brain’s effort system goes offline. When stimulation replaces engagement, motivation drops, focus fractures, emotional regulation weakens, and desire shuts down. That’s not a discipline problem. It’s a nervous system state. In this Supernormal conversation, you’ll understand: • Why overstimulation rewires effort, desire, and regulation • Why habit change fails when the nervous system is dysregulated • Why porn use and dopamine loops flatten real-world reward • How miswiring shows up as low motivation, anxiety, ED, or shutdown Real change doesn’t start with willpower. It starts with seeing how your brain adapts. Why Fantasizing Feels Normal 🤔👉 If you want clarity instead of guessing, brain mapping shows what’s actually happening — and how regulation restores capacity, start with a brain map at https://drtrishleigh.com/ Send us a text Support the show Hi. I am Dr. Trish Leigh, a Cognitive Neuroscientist, and Sex Addiction Recovery Coach. I am on a mission to help people heal their brains from porn use. My podcasts are designed to help you learn that: 🎯Porn Damages Your Brain, 🎯Porn Impairs Your Mental and Physical Health, and 🎯Porn Destroys Your Relationships. Subscribe to this channel for 🧠 tips to: ✅Quit Porn for Good ✅Heal Your Brain from Porn ✅Get Motivated in Your Life ✅Repair Your Mental & Physical Health ✅Heal Erectile Dysfunction If you need more help, I can work directly with you. Check out the programs below. https://drtrishleigh.com/ Donate to Porn Brain Prevention, the nonprofit to help teens avoid porn addiction below: https://pornbrainprevention.org/ Let's Connect! Check out my Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Drtrishleigh #quitporn #pornaddiction #drtrishleigh #pornaddictionrecovery #pornbrainrewire #controlyourbrain #braintraining #trishleigh #nofap #pornkillslove #mindoverporn #monkmode #drleigh #pornaddict #pornaddictionsideeffects #addictedtoporn #cantstopmasturbating #recovery #recoveryjourney #addictionrecovery #recoverycoach #drtrishleigh #monkmode #addiction #pornbrainprevention #pornbrainprograms #releasetoquitporn #howtoquitporn