The Way Love Goes ft. Da Brat and Judy
Fri Feb 06 2026
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened!
They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other.
Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public.
Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight.
And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos.
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This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened! They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other. Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public. Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight. And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.