99. Why You're Probably Still People Pleasing
Wed Apr 02 2025
People pleasing, or authenticity suppression as we like to call it, is a natural adaptive mechanism humans have used for centuries to attain approval, acceptance, and ultimately, safety. While in conscious, small doses this social mirroring can help us feel connected and related to others, it can also begin to erase our sense of self and our confidence if used too much.
People pleasing is not just constantly saying 'yes' or overextending yourself...it also exists in more subtle, hidden ways that are often internalized. Perhaps it's the way you lie about your favorite music to seem more agreeable or refuse to pick a place to eat in the feared event that someone else disagrees with you. It's not always in your behaviors but often found in your unclaimed truths.
In this episode, we talk about the ways you might still be people pleasing without even realizing it. By listening to this conversation, you will become aware of the sneaky ways your unconscious might still be placing others' approval before your own self respect and values.
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People pleasing, or authenticity suppression as we like to call it, is a natural adaptive mechanism humans have used for centuries to attain approval, acceptance, and ultimately, safety. While in conscious, small doses this social mirroring can help us feel connected and related to others, it can also begin to erase our sense of self and our confidence if used too much. People pleasing is not just constantly saying 'yes' or overextending yourself...it also exists in more subtle, hidden ways that are often internalized. Perhaps it's the way you lie about your favorite music to seem more agreeable or refuse to pick a place to eat in the feared event that someone else disagrees with you. It's not always in your behaviors but often found in your unclaimed truths. In this episode, we talk about the ways you might still be people pleasing without even realizing it. By listening to this conversation, you will become aware of the sneaky ways your unconscious might still be placing others' approval before your own self respect and values. -- Join us in June 2025 for the annual Spiraling Higher Retreat. https://shorturl.at/Yyln9 Join our FREE community: (We host free calls every month!): https://tinyurl.com/Spiralinghighercommunity WE FINALLY MADE MERCH! Find your new Spiraling Higher apparel here: http://xmj6wr-xy.myshopify.com/ -- Apply for 1:1 coaching with Sam: https://www.simplifyingsam.com/1on1coaching Apply for 1:1 coaching with Gina: https://tinyurl.com/1on1coachingbte Follow Spiraling Higher: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/spiralinghigher Follow Simplifying Sam: Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@simplifying.sam Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/simplifying.sam Follow Gina: Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ginabourne Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ginabourne For all inquiries, email us at: Spiralinghigher@gmail.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands