Booked & Busy Isn’t the Goal: Redefining Success with Cheri Doren
Wed Feb 04 2026
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What if being “booked and busy” isn’t actually the definition of success we’ve been sold?
In this episode, I’m joined by Cheri Doren, creator of the Defined Stylist Method, behind-the-chair stylist, salon owner, and educator with nearly four decades in the beauty industry. Cheri shares her honest journey through burnout, people-pleasing, financial pressure, and identity loss, and how those experiences shaped the way she now mentors stylists.
We talk about the realities of hustle culture behind the chair, how early salon environments can either build or break confidence, and why so many stylists end up trapped in careers that look successful on the outside but feel unsustainable on the inside.
This conversation is reflective, grounding, and deeply validating for any stylist who has ever felt exhausted, overwhelmed, or unsure if this pace is really what they signed up for.
In this episode, we cover:
Why “booked and busy” isn’t the same as fulfilled or sustainable
How toxic or unstructured salon environments impact confidence and longevity
The moment burnout becomes impossible to ignore
When client relationships cross into identity and emotional exhaustion
Why curating your clientele can be an act of self-respect
The role mentorship plays in preventing burnout before it starts
Cheri’s concept of “personal culture” and intentional career design
Redefining success in a way that actually supports your life
Whether you’re early in your career and want to avoid burnout altogether, or deep in it and craving a way out, this episode offers perspective, permission, and a reminder that there is another way.
Connect with Cheri Doren:
Website: https://www.thedefinedstylistmethod.com
Cheri also shares long-form education, storytelling, and burnout recovery content on Instagram and YouTube, all linked through her website.
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Have a topic request or someone you think we should have on the pod?! Send us a text and let us know! What if being “booked and busy” isn’t actually the definition of success we’ve been sold? In this episode, I’m joined by Cheri Doren, creator of the Defined Stylist Method, behind-the-chair stylist, salon owner, and educator with nearly four decades in the beauty industry. Cheri shares her honest journey through burnout, people-pleasing, financial pressure, and identity loss, and how those experiences shaped the way she now mentors stylists. We talk about the realities of hustle culture behind the chair, how early salon environments can either build or break confidence, and why so many stylists end up trapped in careers that look successful on the outside but feel unsustainable on the inside. This conversation is reflective, grounding, and deeply validating for any stylist who has ever felt exhausted, overwhelmed, or unsure if this pace is really what they signed up for. In this episode, we cover: Why “booked and busy” isn’t the same as fulfilled or sustainable How toxic or unstructured salon environments impact confidence and longevity The moment burnout becomes impossible to ignore When client relationships cross into identity and emotional exhaustion Why curating your clientele can be an act of self-respect The role mentorship plays in preventing burnout before it starts Cheri’s concept of “personal culture” and intentional career design Redefining success in a way that actually supports your life Whether you’re early in your career and want to avoid burnout altogether, or deep in it and craving a way out, this episode offers perspective, permission, and a reminder that there is another way. Connect with Cheri Doren: Website: https://www.thedefinedstylistmethod.com Cheri also shares long-form education, storytelling, and burnout recovery content on Instagram and YouTube, all linked through her website. Connect with Lisa Huff Instagram Facebook YouTube