Ep 124: Toni Everard - How to Love Selling and Being Sold To
Mon Feb 02 2026
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If you have a business, selling is part of the deal. Yet for many service providers, selling feels heavy, awkward or loaded, even when they genuinely care about the work they offer.
In this episode, business and mindset coach Toni Everard explores why discomfort with selling is often less about sales skills and more about authority, power and responsibility. Toni unpacks the hidden contradiction of being willing to sell, but not feeling comfortable being sold to, and how this reveals deeper patterns around control, consent and self-trust.
This conversation reframes selling as an energetic exchange rather than a moral issue, and looks at how clean boundaries, healthy masculine and feminine energy, and personal authority transform both selling and receiving into a clear, respectful and even enjoyable process.
This episode is for service providers who want to reach their first six figures without manipulation, pressure or self-doubt, and who want selling to feel clean, confident and aligned.
In this episode, you will learn:
Why being uncomfortable with being sold to directly affects how you sellHow authority in your own life makes both selling and buying feel saferWhy selling and being sold to are the same energetic exchange from different sidesHow blurred power dynamics create resistance, projection and over-explaining in salesThe role of healthy masculine and feminine energy in clean, confident sellingHow selling becomes a choice-based conversation rather than a threat or obligation
🔗 Let’s Connect
If this episode resonated, send Toni a DM on Instagram or LinkedIn and share what stood out for you.
If you found it valuable, share it with someone who runs a service-based business and wants selling to feel confident and clean, or leave a review to help more people discover The Coaching Circle.
Pre-order your copy of The Turning Point
If you’d love to dive deeper into Toni’s emotional freedom work, you can pre-order your copy here: The Turning Point Book Pre-Release
Links and Resources:
🔹 The Turning Point Book Pre-Release
🔹 Business Alchemy
🔹 Book an Action Call
Connect with Toni Everard:
🌏 Website
💼 LinkedIn
📘 Facebook
📸 Instagram
📺 YouTube
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Send us a text If you have a business, selling is part of the deal. Yet for many service providers, selling feels heavy, awkward or loaded, even when they genuinely care about the work they offer. In this episode, business and mindset coach Toni Everard explores why discomfort with selling is often less about sales skills and more about authority, power and responsibility. Toni unpacks the hidden contradiction of being willing to sell, but not feeling comfortable being sold to, and how this reveals deeper patterns around control, consent and self-trust. This conversation reframes selling as an energetic exchange rather than a moral issue, and looks at how clean boundaries, healthy masculine and feminine energy, and personal authority transform both selling and receiving into a clear, respectful and even enjoyable process. This episode is for service providers who want to reach their first six figures without manipulation, pressure or self-doubt, and who want selling to feel clean, confident and aligned. In this episode, you will learn: Why being uncomfortable with being sold to directly affects how you sellHow authority in your own life makes both selling and buying feel saferWhy selling and being sold to are the same energetic exchange from different sidesHow blurred power dynamics create resistance, projection and over-explaining in salesThe role of healthy masculine and feminine energy in clean, confident sellingHow selling becomes a choice-based conversation rather than a threat or obligation 🔗 Let’s Connect If this episode resonated, send Toni a DM on Instagram or LinkedIn and share what stood out for you. If you found it valuable, share it with someone who runs a service-based business and wants selling to feel confident and clean, or leave a review to help more people discover The Coaching Circle. Pre-order your copy of The Turning Point If you’d love to dive deeper into Toni’s emotional freedom work, you can pre-order your copy here: The Turning Point Book Pre-Release Links and Resources: 🔹 The Turning Point Book Pre-Release 🔹 Business Alchemy 🔹 Book an Action Call Connect with Toni Everard: 🌏 Website 💼 LinkedIn 📘 Facebook 📸 Instagram 📺 YouTube