48. Stop Relying on Motivation: The Systems & Mindset You Need for 2026
Tue Feb 03 2026
If you want 2026 to be the year you actually achieve all your goals, this episode is for you.
In this episode of The Grown-Ups Are Talking, I’m breaking down the things that will actually transform your life: systems, consistency, and the right mindset.
I talk about how to build habits that stick, how to design your environment so success becomes easier, and why living as your future self today matters more than waiting to feel “ready.” This episode is about learning how to show up consistently, even when life gets busy, or when habits feel uncomfortable or unmotivating.
I also share the exact systems I use in my own life, from habit tracking and identifying my non-negotiables, to revisiting goals, vision boards, and protecting your time and attention in a world full of distractions (yes, including social media).
Whether your goals for 2026 involve your career, fitness, creativity, relationships, or personal growth, this episode will help you stop relying on motivation and start building a life that actually works.
In this episode, we cover:
Why motivation is unreliable, and what to use instead
How to build systems that make good habits easier
The role of discipline, discomfort, and consistency in long-term growth
How to revisit and refine your goals throughout the year
Living as your future self without perfectionism or burnout
Why your environment matters more than willpower
How to align your daily habits with the life you actually want
If you’re in your 20s and trying to figure out how to balance ambition, discipline, and real life, this episode is for you. If you like the episode, subscribe to the podcast and leave a rating and review wherever you're listening!
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If you want 2026 to be the year you actually achieve all your goals, this episode is for you. In this episode of The Grown-Ups Are Talking, I’m breaking down the things that will actually transform your life: systems, consistency, and the right mindset. I talk about how to build habits that stick, how to design your environment so success becomes easier, and why living as your future self today matters more than waiting to feel “ready.” This episode is about learning how to show up consistently, even when life gets busy, or when habits feel uncomfortable or unmotivating. I also share the exact systems I use in my own life, from habit tracking and identifying my non-negotiables, to revisiting goals, vision boards, and protecting your time and attention in a world full of distractions (yes, including social media). Whether your goals for 2026 involve your career, fitness, creativity, relationships, or personal growth, this episode will help you stop relying on motivation and start building a life that actually works. In this episode, we cover: Why motivation is unreliable, and what to use instead How to build systems that make good habits easier The role of discipline, discomfort, and consistency in long-term growth How to revisit and refine your goals throughout the year Living as your future self without perfectionism or burnout Why your environment matters more than willpower How to align your daily habits with the life you actually want If you’re in your 20s and trying to figure out how to balance ambition, discipline, and real life, this episode is for you. If you like the episode, subscribe to the podcast and leave a rating and review wherever you're listening!