The Enneagram in Relationships: Type Four - Seen, Known, and Loved for Who They Truly Are
Mon Feb 02 2026
This week we’re continuing our Enneagram in Relationships series with a look at Type Four — The Romantic or The Individualist
If you’re a Four or if you love someone who is, this type is emotionally attuned, introspective, and expressive. They often feel different than others, they notice what is beautiful, what’s broken, and what is uniquely theirs.
In this week’s episode we learn more about Type Four’s, how they navigate relationships and I share a few practical ways to better communicate with, support, and lead a Type Four.
Whether you love, work with, or lead a Type Four you will appreciate the depth, vulnerability, and meaning they bring to relationships. They value real connection, meaningful conversation, and space to be fully themselves.
Your Enneagram Coach Assessment
The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron (an easy read to help you figure out your Enneagram type)
The Path Between Us by Suzanne Stabile (a great read to help you navigate relationships with different Enneagram types)
Music credit: “A Perfect Day” by Iros Young
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This week we’re continuing our Enneagram in Relationships series with a look at Type Four — The Romantic or The Individualist If you’re a Four or if you love someone who is, this type is emotionally attuned, introspective, and expressive. They often feel different than others, they notice what is beautiful, what’s broken, and what is uniquely theirs. In this week’s episode we learn more about Type Four’s, how they navigate relationships and I share a few practical ways to better communicate with, support, and lead a Type Four. Whether you love, work with, or lead a Type Four you will appreciate the depth, vulnerability, and meaning they bring to relationships. They value real connection, meaningful conversation, and space to be fully themselves. Your Enneagram Coach Assessment The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron (an easy read to help you figure out your Enneagram type) The Path Between Us by Suzanne Stabile (a great read to help you navigate relationships with different Enneagram types) Music credit: “A Perfect Day” by Iros Young