Thoughtful Planning

Episode Summary: The day your child turns 18, everything legally changes. Overnight, parents lose access to their child’s medical records, even in emergencies. In this episode, we guide parents on how to mentor their young adult through completing a Medical Power of Attorney before a crisis hits. Using the eFileTexas site, we show how this legal step becomes a milestone of independence, not panic. Essential Question: How can you guide and support your 18-year-old in completing their own medical power of attorney before a crisis occurs? Episode Highlights: [00:00] The email that locks parents out overnight [01:00] What changes at 18 [01:11] Essential question [01:17] Guest story: April Adams Pertuis [02:33] Prepare in peace time, not in crisis [02:47] What a Medical Power of Attorney does [03:05] Introductions and disclaimer [03:17] Recap: Choosing your agent (Ep. 59) [03:26] Why we focus on Texas law [04:25] Mindset shift: mentor vs manager [05:23] Explaining choice and trust [06:14] Who can be an agent (hint: not just parents) [06:20] Two ways to complete the form in Texas [06:43] Why we recommend eFileTexas [06:52] Your child needs their own login [07:16] What “Execute Interview” really means [07:49] Existing documents and cancellation [08:00] Naming agents [08:18] Understanding the “limitations” section [09:01] When to reference a living will [10:46] Disclosure statement, explained simply [11:11] When the agent’s power starts [11:38] Signing: witnesses vs notary [12:09] Why we recommend both [12:19] Blue pens, original copies [12:34] Where and how to store the document [12:57] Glove compartment strategy [13:18] Emergency access via phone [13:48] Inventory sheet: who has copies [14:24] Teaching real-world responsibility [14:45] Answering the essential question [16:21] Your task: start the conversation [17:25] Next episode preview: HIPAA and privacy [17:50] Final thoughts Takeaways: ✅ Turning 18 changes medical privacy rights ✅ A Medical POA lets your child choose their advocate ✅ Recommend parents coach, not control ✅ eFileTexas offers a user-friendly path ✅ Sign with witnesses and a notary ✅ Don’t just sign, share and store it Action Steps (see resources below): 1️⃣ Talk to your teen before they turn 18 2️⃣ Explain this is their choice, not control 3️⃣ Help them create their own eFileTexas login 4️⃣ Choose a primary and alternate agent (see Ep. 59) 5️⃣ Complete the online form 6️⃣ Sign with 2 witnesses and a notary 7️⃣ Distribute copies to doctors and agents 8️⃣ Keep an inventory log 9️⃣ Store a copy in glovebox or on phone Resources: Note: If a link breaks, search by name. Episode 13: Planning With Clarity (Stacey Edwards) https://youtu.be/JD69gLJr0qQ Episode 19: How Facing Adversity Can Fuel Your Planning (April Adams Pertuis) https://youtu.be/FKbdbbY7TxI Episode 56: Living Will Prep (Part 1) https://youtu.be/sq7asB8MhUM Episode 57: Addendums Explained (Part 2) https://youtu.be/Hw-oSJE5RRA Episode 58: Completing the Directive (Part 3) https://youtu.be/SyG76P_BfXQ Episode 59: Choosing a Medical POA Agent https://youtu.be/qGR1i4I6Ujs Texas HHS Advance Directives https://www.hhs.texas.gov/formas/advance-directives eFileTexas Self-Help Site https://texas.tylertech.cloud/SRL/SRL/ExecuteInterview Emory Critical Conditions Guide https://www.hcethics.org/content.aspx?page_id=22&club_id=328955&module_id=377761 Compassion & Choices Toolkit https://compassionandchoices.org/resource/eoldgt/ Next Episode: HIPAA: The Medical Privacy Form Parents Don’t Know They Need Questions? info@legacytoolkit.com Disclaimer: We are not attorneys, financial advisors, or medical professionals. This content is for educational purposes only. We focus on Texas law. Consult an estate planning attorney in your state for guidance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices