Episode 181: Read the Room
Wed Feb 04 2026
“Read the room” is often said after a moment goes sideways—but in leadership, it’s the moment before things go sideways that matters most. Let's break down why reading the room is a cornerstone of executive presence and can strengthen credibility. It’s not about charisma or intuition—it’s about awareness. From in-person meetings to virtual rooms, great leaders don’t just deliver messages; they observe, listen, pause, and adjust in real time. Because leadership communication isn’t complete when you finish speaking—it’s complete when people truly understand.
Highlights include:
How to spot warning signs like agreement without engagement.
Virtual meetings and why silence does not equate to alignment
Practical strategies to sharpen your ability to adjust in the moment
The 'Power of the Pause' is a leadership move.
Asking better questions or a well-timed question can increase engagement.
Visit our websites to explore more leadership conversations and tools, and join our Patreon to support our programs and to gain access to exclusive content and behind-the-scenes insights.
Timestamps:
2:36 Increase Engagement
9:57 Ask Great Questions
11:26 Practical Strategies
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“Read the room” is often said after a moment goes sideways—but in leadership, it’s the moment before things go sideways that matters most. Let's break down why reading the room is a cornerstone of executive presence and can strengthen credibility. It’s not about charisma or intuition—it’s about awareness. From in-person meetings to virtual rooms, great leaders don’t just deliver messages; they observe, listen, pause, and adjust in real time. Because leadership communication isn’t complete when you finish speaking—it’s complete when people truly understand. Highlights include: How to spot warning signs like agreement without engagement. Virtual meetings and why silence does not equate to alignment Practical strategies to sharpen your ability to adjust in the moment The 'Power of the Pause' is a leadership move. Asking better questions or a well-timed question can increase engagement. Visit our websites to explore more leadership conversations and tools, and join our Patreon to support our programs and to gain access to exclusive content and behind-the-scenes insights. Timestamps: 2:36 Increase Engagement 9:57 Ask Great Questions 11:26 Practical Strategies