Reclaiming Confidence, Flirting, and Visibility After Heartbreak with The Golden Bachelor's Cindy Cullers
Thu Feb 05 2026
Have you ever wondered what it really takes to rebuild your confidence after a major heartbreak? In Episode 430 of The Charisma Quotient, "Reclaiming Confidence, Flirting, and Visibility After Heartbreak with The Golden Bachelor's Cindy Cullers" Kimmy welcomes Golden Bachelor finalist, Cindy Culler, for an open and deeply personal conversation about dating confidence in the second act and the power of showing up.
In this episode, Kimmy shares her signature "red dress moment"—the small outward change that catalyzed massive inward growth—and how taking action outside her comfort zone helped her step into confidence after her divorce. Cindy reveals how Kimmy's advice played a vital role in her own post-divorce journey, inspiring her to shed the "mom mode," say yes to new experiences, and ultimately land on national television.
You'll hear Cindy recount the real transformation that happened when she decided to show up boldly—both in life and love—including behind-the-scenes stories from the Golden Bachelor and how she used Kimmy's advice and became a "flirting coach" for her castmates.
You'll hear:
Cindy's candid account of moving from the shadows to center stage, and how she reclaimed her sense of self after divorce.
Why wearing red—and stepping into visibility—can be a game changer, with research-backed reasons men are drawn to this bold color.
How to rebuild confidence from the outside in, not just by thinking, but by taking action.
Playful and approachable flirting tips that work (straight from Cindy's Golden Bachelor adventures!)
The importance of not settling—setting boundaries, getting clear on what you want, and refusing to play small in love or life.
If you're ready to reclaim your sexy confidence, join Kimmy's co-ed Flirting Made Easy Workshop. Register here www.stophatingdating.com and grab your spot.
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life.
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Have you ever wondered what it really takes to rebuild your confidence after a major heartbreak? In Episode 430 of The Charisma Quotient, "Reclaiming Confidence, Flirting, and Visibility After Heartbreak with The Golden Bachelor's Cindy Cullers" Kimmy welcomes Golden Bachelor finalist, Cindy Culler, for an open and deeply personal conversation about dating confidence in the second act and the power of showing up. In this episode, Kimmy shares her signature "red dress moment"—the small outward change that catalyzed massive inward growth—and how taking action outside her comfort zone helped her step into confidence after her divorce. Cindy reveals how Kimmy's advice played a vital role in her own post-divorce journey, inspiring her to shed the "mom mode," say yes to new experiences, and ultimately land on national television. You'll hear Cindy recount the real transformation that happened when she decided to show up boldly—both in life and love—including behind-the-scenes stories from the Golden Bachelor and how she used Kimmy's advice and became a "flirting coach" for her castmates. You'll hear: Cindy's candid account of moving from the shadows to center stage, and how she reclaimed her sense of self after divorce. Why wearing red—and stepping into visibility—can be a game changer, with research-backed reasons men are drawn to this bold color. How to rebuild confidence from the outside in, not just by thinking, but by taking action. Playful and approachable flirting tips that work (straight from Cindy's Golden Bachelor adventures!) The importance of not settling—setting boundaries, getting clear on what you want, and refusing to play small in love or life. If you're ready to reclaim your sexy confidence, join Kimmy's co-ed Flirting Made Easy Workshop. Register here www.stophatingdating.com and grab your spot. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/ Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com