How to Create Results with Zero Pressure
Fri Nov 28 2025
Busy weeks can make it hard to create what you actually want—or you create it by muscling through with guilt and pressure and everything feels heavy. Skill #6: Live as Your Future Self is the light way through. We’ll use a small future-you scene, pair it with a believable belief, borrow the feeling for a minute, and let one tiny action flow naturally. Think: watching the game and not thinking about work, a scrappy podcast slice that helps one person, a calmer 4 p.m. dinner you’re growing into, or a playful Halloween hair moment—because connection beats perfection.
WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:
Future Self, Simply: a near-term scene you can revisit (tonight → a few months) that helps you choose nowBelief → Feeling → Action: pick a believable thought, borrow its steady feeling, take one tiny visible stepBridge Beliefs: “for the next ten minutes, I’m a woman who…” small, true thoughts that make action easyReal Combos: soccer presence, six-months-in podcast rhythm, not-yet sheet-pan dinner, playful Halloween hair
Why It Works: episodic future thinking + future-self continuity + broaden-and-build + progress principle = lighter momentum
Want help with your real life?Join the 90‑Day Mastermind: six live coaching workshops, audio mini‑lessons to your phone, and a private community of high‑achieving women. We’ll run your exact scenario through the model and stack weekly 10% wins until you feel 100% more you. I’m inviting five to ten women. Here’s the link: https://www.choosebetterthoughts.com/coachingprogram
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Busy weeks can make it hard to create what you actually want—or you create it by muscling through with guilt and pressure and everything feels heavy. Skill #6: Live as Your Future Self is the light way through. We’ll use a small future-you scene, pair it with a believable belief, borrow the feeling for a minute, and let one tiny action flow naturally. Think: watching the game and not thinking about work, a scrappy podcast slice that helps one person, a calmer 4 p.m. dinner you’re growing into, or a playful Halloween hair moment—because connection beats perfection. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: Future Self, Simply: a near-term scene you can revisit (tonight → a few months) that helps you choose nowBelief → Feeling → Action: pick a believable thought, borrow its steady feeling, take one tiny visible stepBridge Beliefs: “for the next ten minutes, I’m a woman who…” small, true thoughts that make action easyReal Combos: soccer presence, six-months-in podcast rhythm, not-yet sheet-pan dinner, playful Halloween hair Why It Works: episodic future thinking + future-self continuity + broaden-and-build + progress principle = lighter momentum Want help with your real life?Join the 90‑Day Mastermind: six live coaching workshops, audio mini‑lessons to your phone, and a private community of high‑achieving women. We’ll run your exact scenario through the model and stack weekly 10% wins until you feel 100% more you. I’m inviting five to ten women. Here’s the link: https://www.choosebetterthoughts.com/coachingprogram Follow me on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/choosebetterthoughts/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandahuffmandoyle/ And if you like this episode, don’t forget to follow, subscribe, leave a review or send it to a friend who might need this! I am so grateful to you! You've got this!