S4 Ep #89 - You’re Not Broken — You’re Just Treating Personal Development Like a Quick Fix
Wed Jan 28 2026
If you’ve done the programs…
read the books…
followed the coaches…
and still find yourself ending up back in the same emotional patterns — this episode is for you.
In this conversation, I’m calling out one of the biggest lies in the personal development industry.. that doing “the work” once should’ve fixed you by now.
We talk about why personal development isn’t a quick fix — it’s a practice — and why so many women feel like they should be further ahead, even after years of self-work.
This isn’t a shame-based episode. It’s an honest one.
If you’ve ever thought:
“Why am I still here when I know better?”
or
“I’ve done so much work — why doesn’t it stick?”
You’re not broken.
You’re just being asked to stop chasing quick fixes and start committing to the small, daily practices that actually compound.
And if you’re ready for a mentor who does this work differently — grounded, practical, nervous-system-led — you’ll know exactly what to do next.
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If you’ve done the programs… read the books… followed the coaches… and still find yourself ending up back in the same emotional patterns — this episode is for you. In this conversation, I’m calling out one of the biggest lies in the personal development industry.. that doing “the work” once should’ve fixed you by now. We talk about why personal development isn’t a quick fix — it’s a practice — and why so many women feel like they should be further ahead, even after years of self-work. This isn’t a shame-based episode. It’s an honest one. If you’ve ever thought: “Why am I still here when I know better?” or “I’ve done so much work — why doesn’t it stick?” You’re not broken. You’re just being asked to stop chasing quick fixes and start committing to the small, daily practices that actually compound. And if you’re ready for a mentor who does this work differently — grounded, practical, nervous-system-led — you’ll know exactly what to do next.