How to Stop Sacrificing Your Self for Belonging w— Erin Kelley
Thu Jan 22 2026
Today I’m sharing my second conversation with writer and astrologer Erin Kelley.
We tell our personal (and planetary) stories of loss, seduction, codependency, and people-pleasing — as we explore how mid-life transits can become portals to authentic intimacy.
We also discuss Erin's Slow Magick practice and how to change your life in sacred time.
As soon as I started to do the deep work… it changed how I was in my relationships. Once I was able to show up in a different way and be intimate in a whole new experience — that freedom of expression showed me how: “Oh no sweetie, you weren’t just codependent in your romantic relationships. That shit was everywhere.” — Erin Kelley
we discuss —
the power of a second actmid-life transits as portals for transformationending cycles of Self-abandonmentstarting over after loss of love, job, money, everythingNeptune’s illusions and delusionsthe tension between the 1st house of Self and the 7th house of Otherreleasing codependence and people-pleasingwhat committed partnership really meansthe devotional practice of Slow Magickthe pleasure of stepping into the Moment
LINKS
If you enjoyed the episode, check out —
R.I.P. Good GirlBusiness as Initiation, grace on an episode of Off the GridListen to grace on Erin’s podcast The Nature of Invisible Things
More about our guest —
Slow Magick websiteSlow Magick on IGSlow Magick on SubstackDevotional Astrology & Tarot - A heart-centered experience of the stars and cards grounded in everyday life
Mentioned in the episode—
Burn through your unworthiness and ignite your innate erotic power. Sign up for VIRGIN here. ❤️🔥
Join the waitlist for MA 🌹
Free Resources —
Receive the 3 keys that unlocked every major Initiation in my life. Get 3 Keys for the Soul here for FREE. 🗝️
Stay Connected —
Subscribe to the home—body podcast
grace’s website
Send us a message! 💫
thanks for listening. peace, be well. 🙏
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Today I’m sharing my second conversation with writer and astrologer Erin Kelley. We tell our personal (and planetary) stories of loss, seduction, codependency, and people-pleasing — as we explore how mid-life transits can become portals to authentic intimacy. We also discuss Erin's Slow Magick practice and how to change your life in sacred time. As soon as I started to do the deep work… it changed how I was in my relationships. Once I was able to show up in a different way and be intimate in a whole new experience — that freedom of expression showed me how: “Oh no sweetie, you weren’t just codependent in your romantic relationships. That shit was everywhere.” — Erin Kelley we discuss — the power of a second actmid-life transits as portals for transformationending cycles of Self-abandonmentstarting over after loss of love, job, money, everythingNeptune’s illusions and delusionsthe tension between the 1st house of Self and the 7th house of Otherreleasing codependence and people-pleasingwhat committed partnership really meansthe devotional practice of Slow Magickthe pleasure of stepping into the Moment LINKS If you enjoyed the episode, check out — R.I.P. Good GirlBusiness as Initiation, grace on an episode of Off the GridListen to grace on Erin’s podcast The Nature of Invisible Things More about our guest — Slow Magick websiteSlow Magick on IGSlow Magick on SubstackDevotional Astrology & Tarot - A heart-centered experience of the stars and cards grounded in everyday life Mentioned in the episode— Burn through your unworthiness and ignite your innate erotic power. Sign up for VIRGIN here. ❤️🔥 Join the waitlist for MA 🌹 Free Resources — Receive the 3 keys that unlocked every major Initiation in my life. Get 3 Keys for the Soul here for FREE. 🗝️ Stay Connected — Subscribe to the home—body podcast grace’s website Send us a message! 💫 thanks for listening. peace, be well. 🙏