How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (ft. Danica Patrick)
Sat Feb 07 2026
She's won races most people can't finish. Built businesses. Commanded stages. But relationships? That's where the pattern kept breaking.
Danica Patrick joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov for a raw conversation about why high-achieving women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men: and what actually has to change.
In this video:
→ The "quiet disorganized" attachment pattern most successful women don't know they have
→ Why making life easy for men destroys the bond you're trying to build
→ The four levels of safety men must provide: and where most fail
→ Adam's three-date method for filtering out avoidant men fast
→ How to stop erasing yourself in relationships
→ The CEO/COO model that lets you stay in your feminine at home
→ Why male discomfort is actually a good sign
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She's won races most people can't finish. Built businesses. Commanded stages. But relationships? That's where the pattern kept breaking. Danica Patrick joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov for a raw conversation about why high-achieving women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men: and what actually has to change. In this video: → The "quiet disorganized" attachment pattern most successful women don't know they have → Why making life easy for men destroys the bond you're trying to build → The four levels of safety men must provide: and where most fail → Adam's three-date method for filtering out avoidant men fast → How to stop erasing yourself in relationships → The CEO/COO model that lets you stay in your feminine at home → Why male discomfort is actually a good sign 📚 WORK WITH ME 🫂 RELATIONSHIP MASTERY INTENSIVE April 23–26, 2026 | San Diego, California 3 days of real skill-building with people who understand exactly what you're going through. Apply here: https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?ut... 💬 1:1 COACHING Work directly with my team: https://adamlanesmith.com/private-coa... 📋 FREE ATTACHMENT QUIZ Find out your attachment style in under 5 minutes: https://adamlanesmith.com/attachment-... 📬 NEWSLETTER Get weekly insights on attachment patterns: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup