Living Life on the Perimeter
Mon Jan 19 2026
Episode on thriving as a social observer on the fringes, drawing from self-leadership principles. The discussion explores changing social circles, likened to switching "ponds," to find environments that align with personal growth.
Wrong Pond Dynamics: Kalyna identifies misfit social groups where values clash and urges exiting draining environments for those fostering development, akin to fish in the right ecosystem.
Fringe Observer Benefits: Positions on the edge provide objectivity, resilience, and fresh insights, sidestepping groupthink while nurturing genuine ties.
Audit your circle: Track draining versus energizing interactions and initiate one "pond change," such as exploring a new community.
Embrace fringe power: Observe quietly in social settings to gauge real dynamics prior to committing.
Prioritize self-leadership: Use daily practices like boundary journaling to amplify positive edge influence.
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Memorable Book Tour with Kalyna
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Episode on thriving as a social observer on the fringes, drawing from self-leadership principles. The discussion explores changing social circles, likened to switching "ponds," to find environments that align with personal growth. Wrong Pond Dynamics: Kalyna identifies misfit social groups where values clash and urges exiting draining environments for those fostering development, akin to fish in the right ecosystem. Fringe Observer Benefits: Positions on the edge provide objectivity, resilience, and fresh insights, sidestepping groupthink while nurturing genuine ties. Audit your circle: Track draining versus energizing interactions and initiate one "pond change," such as exploring a new community. Embrace fringe power: Observe quietly in social settings to gauge real dynamics prior to committing. Prioritize self-leadership: Use daily practices like boundary journaling to amplify positive edge influence. --- // LINKS // 1:1 Coaching With Kalyna Merch - Lead. Apparel Take the Free Enneagram Quiz Here // BOOKS // Read Memorable Order Memorable on Amazon Buy Memorable from Barnes and Noble Get Memorable from Indigo Memorable Book Tour with Kalyna // SUPPORT THIS SHOW // Inner Circle: Get behind the scenes access Donate to help with show production // COURSES // Enrol in Predictable Profit™ - Build a business that generates consistent income Free Build a Business 101 Training // SOCIAL // Instagram Facebook LinkedIn YouTube