131 | The Cost of Staying: When income becomes the reason you resist change and stay misaligned
Mon Feb 02 2026
What if the greatest cost in your career isn’t leaving… but staying?
We talk often about the risks of walking away — from income, identity, and security.
But far less about the quieter, cumulative cost of remaining in work you’ve already outgrown.
In this episode of the Awakening Series, Dr Diane explores the rarely named truth behind professional comfort: why stability is often mistaken for wisdom, how the paycheck becomes the final justification, and what slowly erodes when misalignment is tolerated for too long.
This is not an episode about impulsive change or dramatic exits.
It’s an invitation to honesty - before numbness becomes normal.
🖋 Reflection Prompt
If you continue exactly as you are for the next five years…
what is the quiet cost?
Not financially.
Internally.
What might you be trading for comfort?
🌿 Gentle Invitation
If this episode is stirring questions about what you’re really staying for, a quiet reflection companion has been created to help you explore this — without rushing into answers.
You’ll find it linked below.
Download the Reflection Worksheet here https://docs.google.com/document/d/10RQ3mwub3WhH1Qy34unIWxLaMCazLjwoPCQNJHIfxMg/edit?usp=sharing
Join the Pivot Crash Course in 2026 and start building your career with clarity and confidence 👉 https://lifebeyondclinicalpractice.com/main-order-page
Join Dr. Diane van Staden as she guides you through the reinvention journey - one honest conversation at a time.
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What if the greatest cost in your career isn’t leaving… but staying? We talk often about the risks of walking away — from income, identity, and security. But far less about the quieter, cumulative cost of remaining in work you’ve already outgrown. In this episode of the Awakening Series, Dr Diane explores the rarely named truth behind professional comfort: why stability is often mistaken for wisdom, how the paycheck becomes the final justification, and what slowly erodes when misalignment is tolerated for too long. This is not an episode about impulsive change or dramatic exits. It’s an invitation to honesty - before numbness becomes normal. 🖋 Reflection Prompt If you continue exactly as you are for the next five years… what is the quiet cost? Not financially. Internally. What might you be trading for comfort? 🌿 Gentle Invitation If this episode is stirring questions about what you’re really staying for, a quiet reflection companion has been created to help you explore this — without rushing into answers. You’ll find it linked below. Download the Reflection Worksheet here https://docs.google.com/document/d/10RQ3mwub3WhH1Qy34unIWxLaMCazLjwoPCQNJHIfxMg/edit?usp=sharing Join the Pivot Crash Course in 2026 and start building your career with clarity and confidence 👉 https://lifebeyondclinicalpractice.com/main-order-page Join Dr. Diane van Staden as she guides you through the reinvention journey - one honest conversation at a time.