Queer Connections

This episode is different. It's raw! It's real! Its the truth behind why I teach what I teach now. This past year, I lost my marriage. I lost family. I lost the version of me that kept abandoning herself just to feel loved.But in the wreckage, I found something more powerful than any relationship: emotional sovereignty. If you've ever stayed too long in a relationship that drained you…If you've ever performed, over-given, or disappeared in love just to feel worthy…If you've ever been told you're “too much” while begging to feel like enough…This episode is for you. You’ll hear: The personal story I’ve never shared this fully until now What emotional neglect really looks like inside a “functioning” relationship Why people-pleasers confuse loyalty with self-abandonment And how the hardest year of my life became the blueprint for everything I teach now This isn’t a strategy session—it’s a reckoning.Because healing isn’t about finding the right partner.It’s about finally choosing yourself.