S15 Ep. 10: How to Be Wild, Ask for a Threesome, and a Round Up of Our Final Advice on How to Have a Happy Sex Life and Relationship
Wed Jan 21 2026
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:
1) I’m 32 and should be at my prime sexually, but feel like I’m an intensely boring lover. I want to be wild and uninhibited, and the sort of lover men think about for the rest of their lives. But I’m so vanilla, I don’t even know how to be wildly sexy, or what sort of things that would include.
2) I’m happily married, but, like anyone in a monogamous relationship, a bit bored. I have never had a threesome, but would love to have one. My fear is that even asking my wife to have one will lead to her never talking to me ever again. How can I suss her out without causing issues?
3) Our last ever question on SexTok isn’t a question—it’s a round-up of what Kelsey and Tracey think are the most important things to do if you want to be a happy couple. Some tips to live your life by...
To contact Tracey: Email her at traceycoxtherapy@gmail or message her on Instagram @traceycoxsexauthor
Starting in 2026, Tracey is offering a problem solving service, based on decades of writing and researching sex and relationships. It's a unique three-session package done via Zoom, chat, email, or phone. In the first session, you'll tell her your problem. In the second, she'll suggest solutions. In the third session, she'll troubleshoot and come up with a plan for the future. Straightforward, practical advice that's simple to follow—and works.
Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!
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In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 32 and should be at my prime sexually, but feel like I’m an intensely boring lover. I want to be wild and uninhibited, and the sort of lover men think about for the rest of their lives. But I’m so vanilla, I don’t even know how to be wildly sexy, or what sort of things that would include. 2) I’m happily married, but, like anyone in a monogamous relationship, a bit bored. I have never had a threesome, but would love to have one. My fear is that even asking my wife to have one will lead to her never talking to me ever again. How can I suss her out without causing issues? 3) Our last ever question on SexTok isn’t a question—it’s a round-up of what Kelsey and Tracey think are the most important things to do if you want to be a happy couple. Some tips to live your life by... To contact Tracey: Email her at traceycoxtherapy@gmail or message her on Instagram @traceycoxsexauthor Starting in 2026, Tracey is offering a problem solving service, based on decades of writing and researching sex and relationships. It's a unique three-session package done via Zoom, chat, email, or phone. In the first session, you'll tell her your problem. In the second, she'll suggest solutions. In the third session, she'll troubleshoot and come up with a plan for the future. Straightforward, practical advice that's simple to follow—and works. Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.