At Impasse with Your School?
Tue Feb 03 2026
We’ve all hit that moment in an IEP meeting where the conversation just… stops. No agreement. No movement. Just two sides locked in place. That’s impasse — and when it happens at school, walking away isn’t really an option.
In this episode, I go back to the foundations of advocacy and negotiation to talk about what to do when discussions stall and you’re stuck in that uncomfortable space between what your child needs and what the school is willing to offer. Using real-life examples, we break down practical strategies parents can use when talks feel frozen.
This episode isn’t about being combative. It’s about being strategic. When school teams hold power and conversations feel circular, there are ways to reset the table without escalating conflict.
In this episode, I cover:
What “impasse” actually looks like in IEP negotiationsWhy walking away isn’t an option in educationThe importance of prioritizing before the meeting startsHow to reframe conversations when you’re stuck in loopsUsing interest-based negotiation to uncover the real “why”Bringing in new voices, data, and ideas to break stalematesPractical ways to move conversations forward without burning bridges
If you’ve ever left a meeting feeling stuck, unheard, or unsure how to get negotiations moving again, this episode gives you a framework to reset the conversation and advocate with intention — not exhaustion.
Warm coffee optional. Persistence required.
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We’ve all hit that moment in an IEP meeting where the conversation just… stops. No agreement. No movement. Just two sides locked in place. That’s impasse — and when it happens at school, walking away isn’t really an option. In this episode, I go back to the foundations of advocacy and negotiation to talk about what to do when discussions stall and you’re stuck in that uncomfortable space between what your child needs and what the school is willing to offer. Using real-life examples, we break down practical strategies parents can use when talks feel frozen. This episode isn’t about being combative. It’s about being strategic. When school teams hold power and conversations feel circular, there are ways to reset the table without escalating conflict. In this episode, I cover: What “impasse” actually looks like in IEP negotiationsWhy walking away isn’t an option in educationThe importance of prioritizing before the meeting startsHow to reframe conversations when you’re stuck in loopsUsing interest-based negotiation to uncover the real “why”Bringing in new voices, data, and ideas to break stalematesPractical ways to move conversations forward without burning bridges If you’ve ever left a meeting feeling stuck, unheard, or unsure how to get negotiations moving again, this episode gives you a framework to reset the conversation and advocate with intention — not exhaustion. Warm coffee optional. Persistence required.