The Threshold Part 3
Thu Nov 27 2025
Most of us do our inner work in solitude. We build awareness. We regulate. We deepen into self-trust.
But eventually— life invites us to take that inner work into our relationships. Specifically, into our adult relationships.
This is what I explore in Part Three of The Threshold series: how the emotional mastery I've cultivated privately is showing up inside my partnership, my parenting, and the beautiful complexity of blending families.
This episode is not about theory. It's about practice. About what it means to stay present when you want to disconnect. To choose curiosity in moments of discomfort. To share the responsibility of safety.
Inside, I explore:
What co-regulation really looks like in adult love
How two nervous systems shape the quality of connection
Why presence matters more than perfection
The moments that turn emotional work into lived healing
If you're on your own path of becoming— and want to show up more fully inside your relationships—this is your episode.
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If this speaks to where you are, The Emotional Reset is the next step.
This private, one-month coaching container helps you regulate your nervous system, reclaim emotional authority, and lead your life—and your relationships—from a place of grounded presence.
Because the version of you who can hold more is already within you.
Let's help her take the lead.
EXPLORE AN EMOTIONAL RESET (Private Coaching With Me)
Dr. Shyam XO
Where to Connect:
THE FREE PRECIPICE WORKSHOP: https://www.shyamalakiru.com/workshop
BOOK AN EMOTIONAL RESET: https://www.shyamalakiru.com/the-intensives
EXPLORE WORK WITH MY PSYCHOTHERAPY CLINIC: http://kirupsychotherapy.com
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Most of us do our inner work in solitude. We build awareness. We regulate. We deepen into self-trust. But eventually— life invites us to take that inner work into our relationships. Specifically, into our adult relationships. This is what I explore in Part Three of The Threshold series: how the emotional mastery I've cultivated privately is showing up inside my partnership, my parenting, and the beautiful complexity of blending families. This episode is not about theory. It's about practice. About what it means to stay present when you want to disconnect. To choose curiosity in moments of discomfort. To share the responsibility of safety. Inside, I explore: What co-regulation really looks like in adult love How two nervous systems shape the quality of connection Why presence matters more than perfection The moments that turn emotional work into lived healing If you're on your own path of becoming— and want to show up more fully inside your relationships—this is your episode. LISTEN ON SPOTIFY LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS If this speaks to where you are, The Emotional Reset is the next step. This private, one-month coaching container helps you regulate your nervous system, reclaim emotional authority, and lead your life—and your relationships—from a place of grounded presence. Because the version of you who can hold more is already within you. Let's help her take the lead. EXPLORE AN EMOTIONAL RESET (Private Coaching With Me) Dr. Shyam XO Where to Connect: THE FREE PRECIPICE WORKSHOP: https://www.shyamalakiru.com/workshop BOOK AN EMOTIONAL RESET: https://www.shyamalakiru.com/the-intensives EXPLORE WORK WITH MY PSYCHOTHERAPY CLINIC: http://kirupsychotherapy.com WEBSITE: https://shyamalakiru.com LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-shyamala-kiru-4a853aa5/ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/iam.drshyam/