EP61: Gentle Parenting vs Others Parenting Styles
Mon Feb 03 2025
In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the world of parenting styles, with a special focus on gentle parenting. She shares her personal experiences, reflecting on the evolution of parenting through the generations and exploring how the early years play a pivotal role in shaping a child's future. Ms. Amber discusses the pros and cons of gentle parenting, how it compares to other parenting styles, and the importance of balancing empathy with clear boundaries.
Key Highlights:
[00:01 - 05:03] Parenting Styles: A Personal Exploration
How parenting styles have evolved over generations.
The pressure of parenting in the early years and how it shapes the rest of a child’s life.
The role of self-reflection in determining the kind of parent you want to be.
[05:04 - 10:21] Gentle Parenting: A Closer Look
The foundation of gentle parenting: empathy, respect, and clear boundaries.
Why understanding your child’s emotions and triggers is crucial for parenting success.
The balance between being gentle and firm when it comes to discipline.
[10:22 - 15:12] The Importance of Teaching Consequences
Gentle parenting’s approach to setting boundaries without relying on punishment.
How real-world consequences (like stepping on a rock) can be teaching moments.
The importance of guiding your children, not just being their friend.
[15:13 - 20:21] Parenting in the Real World: When Gentle Parenting Isn't Enough
When gentleness doesn't work, and how to step up as the authoritative figure.
The critical need for parents to model empathy and respect.
The ultimate goal of raising independent, confident, and responsible children.
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You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber:
Website: www.thelovingstartway.com
Instagram: thelovingstartway
Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy.
Thank you for tuning in!
Tweetable Quotes:
“ How your child behaves in acts in public and around other people is a reflection on your parenting style.” -Ms. Amber
“ whether those are good consequences or negative ones, there are always are consequences.” -Ms. Amber
“ gentleness will only get you so far, and then you have to bring in the consequences.” -Ms. Amber
“ Guidance instead of punishment, teaching rather than enforcing strict discipline.” -Ms. Amber
“ Let them have the natural consequences because that's how our kids learn.” -Ms. Amber
“ We should not be friends with our kids. We are not friends.” -Ms. Amber
“ Kids need freedom, kids need rules and boundaries and clear expectations. “ -Ms. Amber
“ It's really important that our kids see us failing too, because we are not perfect.” - Ms. Amber
“ Humans, we fail, but in our failures is our growth. And we want our kids to experience that too.” -Ms. Amber
“Our job as parents is to be a teacher and to teach our kids. -Ms. Amber
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In this episode, Ms. Amber dives into the world of parenting styles, with a special focus on gentle parenting. She shares her personal experiences, reflecting on the evolution of parenting through the generations and exploring how the early years play a pivotal role in shaping a child's future. Ms. Amber discusses the pros and cons of gentle parenting, how it compares to other parenting styles, and the importance of balancing empathy with clear boundaries. Key Highlights: [00:01 - 05:03] Parenting Styles: A Personal Exploration How parenting styles have evolved over generations. The pressure of parenting in the early years and how it shapes the rest of a child’s life. The role of self-reflection in determining the kind of parent you want to be. [05:04 - 10:21] Gentle Parenting: A Closer Look The foundation of gentle parenting: empathy, respect, and clear boundaries. Why understanding your child’s emotions and triggers is crucial for parenting success. The balance between being gentle and firm when it comes to discipline. [10:22 - 15:12] The Importance of Teaching Consequences Gentle parenting’s approach to setting boundaries without relying on punishment. How real-world consequences (like stepping on a rock) can be teaching moments. The importance of guiding your children, not just being their friend. [15:13 - 20:21] Parenting in the Real World: When Gentle Parenting Isn't Enough When gentleness doesn't work, and how to step up as the authoritative figure. The critical need for parents to model empathy and respect. The ultimate goal of raising independent, confident, and responsible children. If you liked this episode of The ABCs of Preschool, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, like, share, and subscribe! You can CONNECT with Ms. Amber: Website: www.thelovingstartway.com Instagram: thelovingstartway Ms. Amber is the author of the ABC's of Preschool and the founder of Loving Start Learning Centers. www.lovingstartlearningcenter.com and founder of the Loving Start Way Academy. Thank you for tuning in! Tweetable Quotes: “ How your child behaves in acts in public and around other people is a reflection on your parenting style.” -Ms. Amber “ whether those are good consequences or negative ones, there are always are consequences.” -Ms. Amber “ gentleness will only get you so far, and then you have to bring in the consequences.” -Ms. Amber “ Guidance instead of punishment, teaching rather than enforcing strict discipline.” -Ms. Amber “ Let them have the natural consequences because that's how our kids learn.” -Ms. Amber “ We should not be friends with our kids. We are not friends.” -Ms. Amber “ Kids need freedom, kids need rules and boundaries and clear expectations. “ -Ms. Amber “ It's really important that our kids see us failing too, because we are not perfect.” - Ms. Amber “ Humans, we fail, but in our failures is our growth. And we want our kids to experience that too.” -Ms. Amber “Our job as parents is to be a teacher and to teach our kids. -Ms. Amber