204. Getting Crystal Clear on Who She Is — and Who She Needs #becomingbabeaf
Fri Nov 21 2025
In this week’s episode, we’re getting honest about the version of you that you’re becoming — the woman with clarity, calm, standards, routines, and a whole upgraded main-character energy.
But here’s the twist:
You can get crystal clear on your future self all you want… yet sometimes you can’t step into her without help from the people who love you.
I’m diving into the weekend lesson that smacked me gently across the face: sometimes I overcomplicate things in friendships, and sometimes the simplest, softest version of me is the most aligned with who I’m becoming.
This episode explores:
✨ What your future self actually looks like
✨ Why simplifying your friendships matters
✨ How good intentions can overwhelm people
✨ And why you can’t evolve in isolation — you need your people
It’s equal parts introspection, honesty, and “oh damn, that’s me.”
Tune in and let’s grow without the chaos.
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In this week’s episode, we’re getting honest about the version of you that you’re becoming — the woman with clarity, calm, standards, routines, and a whole upgraded main-character energy. But here’s the twist: You can get crystal clear on your future self all you want… yet sometimes you can’t step into her without help from the people who love you. I’m diving into the weekend lesson that smacked me gently across the face: sometimes I overcomplicate things in friendships, and sometimes the simplest, softest version of me is the most aligned with who I’m becoming. This episode explores: ✨ What your future self actually looks like ✨ Why simplifying your friendships matters ✨ How good intentions can overwhelm people ✨ And why you can’t evolve in isolation — you need your people It’s equal parts introspection, honesty, and “oh damn, that’s me.” Tune in and let’s grow without the chaos.