Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman
Wed Feb 04 2026
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People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does.
Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an unfair, patriarchal world. In this episode, we'll discuss:
Why people don't want the truthWhy you'll always lose when you play fair and honestHow men, employers, and job recruiters cracked this code a long time agoHow they've been selling you the fantasy to take advantage of youHow to be the fantasy woman in dating, work, and job interviews
Timestamps:
Intro: What is fantasy and why are people so obsessed with it (1:50)Exceptions: Why fair, righteous women always lose (12:09)Example: How job recruiters sell you the fantasy (17:46)How to be the fantasy woman (25:16)Tricks for dating (30:14)Tricks for the workplace & job interviews (36:15)
Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.
👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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📚 Want the first 20 Girly Laws of Power in book format? Get a SIGNED (!!) copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file. Free preview available here. People don't want the truth, they want what's going to make them feel better. And that's exactly what the fantasy woman does. Too many women are caught up in the Righteousness Olympics, and think they have to be 100% honest all the time. LOL. Imagine playing fair in an unfair, patriarchal world. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why people don't want the truthWhy you'll always lose when you play fair and honestHow men, employers, and job recruiters cracked this code a long time agoHow they've been selling you the fantasy to take advantage of youHow to be the fantasy woman in dating, work, and job interviews Timestamps: Intro: What is fantasy and why are people so obsessed with it (1:50)Exceptions: Why fair, righteous women always lose (12:09)Example: How job recruiters sell you the fantasy (17:46)How to be the fantasy woman (25:16)Tricks for dating (30:14)Tricks for the workplace & job interviews (36:15) Note: If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps ✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building. Love, Neeki __________ 🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us. 👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies. __________ 🌸 IG: @baddestbinthebldg💓 TikTok: @baddest.b.in.the.bldg💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon💌 Subscribe to The Baddie Brief, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.