268. Initiating Sex: Emotional Strength and Presence Make Men More Attractive
Wed Feb 04 2026
Emotional strength and grounded presence are essential when initiating sex, in the context of long term relationships. In today's episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses how boys are raised and how that upbringing sets them up for failure as men. This shifts when men become more comfortable with vulnerability and presence; in the process attraction increases and relational connection deepens, all of which leads to a loving yes from a woman, and more fulfilling sex for both of them.
If you're a man and this resonates with you, join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's online program, Initiating, and learn how to initiate in a way that builds trust and desire: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating
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Create a marriage that feels alive, deeply connected, and supportive of your ambitions and full life. Start here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/work-with-alexandra/
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Personal coaching for couples who want more closeness, desire, and emotional safety without losing themselves or each other: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/private/
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My proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise): https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com
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Learn the principles and practices that make deep connection and passion sustainable in long-term marriage: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl
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A powerful introduction to what it truly takes to create extraordinary intimacy. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book
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Join my email list for practical intimacy insights, relationship guidance, and invitations to live Q&A sessions: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe
For speaking, media, or professional inquiries: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/
About Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success!
This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
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Emotional strength and grounded presence are essential when initiating sex, in the context of long term relationships. In today's episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses how boys are raised and how that upbringing sets them up for failure as men. This shifts when men become more comfortable with vulnerability and presence; in the process attraction increases and relational connection deepens, all of which leads to a loving yes from a woman, and more fulfilling sex for both of them. If you're a man and this resonates with you, join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's online program, Initiating, and learn how to initiate in a way that builds trust and desire: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Subscribe to The Intimate Marriage Podcast Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Spotify Create a marriage that feels alive, deeply connected, and supportive of your ambitions and full life. Start here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/work-with-alexandra/ Apply for Relationship & Intimacy Coaching Personal coaching for couples who want more closeness, desire, and emotional safety without losing themselves or each other: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/private/ Aligned & Hot Marriage My proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise): https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com Read My Bestselling Book, Uncompromising Intimacy Learn the principles and practices that make deep connection and passion sustainable in long-term marriage: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the First Chapter (Free) A powerful introduction to what it truly takes to create extraordinary intimacy. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Stay Connected With Dr. Alexandra Connect Online: Website | LinkedIn | Instagram Join my email list for practical intimacy insights, relationship guidance, and invitations to live Q&A sessions: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe For speaking, media, or professional inquiries: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ About Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact