#021 Chaos, Composure, and Service: Lessons From the Marines to Life — Garrett DuBois
Tue Jan 13 2026
What drives someone to seek chaos, responsibility, and service — again and again?
In this episode, Brandon sits down with Garrett DuBois, a former Marine, Secret Service agent, and lifelong coach, to unpack the mindset forged through war, leadership, and high-stakes decision-making.
Garrett shares what pulled him toward the Marines after 9/11, why competition and service are wired deep in so many people, and how exposure to real conflict permanently reshapes how you see comfort, effort, and responsibility. From clearing roads in Iraq to leading teams in civilian life, this conversation cuts straight to the core of composure under pressure.They explore complacency, discipline, and why the smallest details matter more than people realize — especially in a world that keeps getting easier and more automated. Garrett also breaks down leadership lessons learned through coaching, combat, and federal service, and why imperfect action beats perfect plans every time.
What you’ll learn:
What drives people to answer the call to serve — and why some don’tHow war and global exposure permanently change perspectiveWhy complacency is more dangerous in everyday life than in combatHow to stay composed when everything goes wrongWhy details matter — even when outcomes seem guaranteedThe leadership mindset behind imperfect action and momentum
About Garrett DuBoisGarrett DuBois is a former U.S. Marine, Secret Service agent, and wrestling coach. His life has revolved around service, leadership, and building people through discipline, accountability, and shared purpose.
Who this episode is forAnyone who wants to understand leadership under pressure, develop composure in chaos,and live with intention in a world that increasingly avoids discomfort.
👉 Follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share this episode with someone who needs a reminderthat growth comes from responsibility — not comfort.
Keywords: leadership, military mindset, Marines, discipline, service, chaos, composure,personal responsibility, coaching, competition, self-awareness
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What drives someone to seek chaos, responsibility, and service — again and again? In this episode, Brandon sits down with Garrett DuBois, a former Marine, Secret Service agent, and lifelong coach, to unpack the mindset forged through war, leadership, and high-stakes decision-making. Garrett shares what pulled him toward the Marines after 9/11, why competition and service are wired deep in so many people, and how exposure to real conflict permanently reshapes how you see comfort, effort, and responsibility. From clearing roads in Iraq to leading teams in civilian life, this conversation cuts straight to the core of composure under pressure.They explore complacency, discipline, and why the smallest details matter more than people realize — especially in a world that keeps getting easier and more automated. Garrett also breaks down leadership lessons learned through coaching, combat, and federal service, and why imperfect action beats perfect plans every time. What you’ll learn: What drives people to answer the call to serve — and why some don’tHow war and global exposure permanently change perspectiveWhy complacency is more dangerous in everyday life than in combatHow to stay composed when everything goes wrongWhy details matter — even when outcomes seem guaranteedThe leadership mindset behind imperfect action and momentum About Garrett DuBoisGarrett DuBois is a former U.S. Marine, Secret Service agent, and wrestling coach. His life has revolved around service, leadership, and building people through discipline, accountability, and shared purpose. Who this episode is forAnyone who wants to understand leadership under pressure, develop composure in chaos,and live with intention in a world that increasingly avoids discomfort. 👉 Follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share this episode with someone who needs a reminderthat growth comes from responsibility — not comfort. Keywords: leadership, military mindset, Marines, discipline, service, chaos, composure,personal responsibility, coaching, competition, self-awareness