Is it Disrespect? What is Respect and how is it Earned?
Tue Jan 27 2026
We throw the word disrespect around a lot, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, we slow things down and take a closer look at what respect truly is, whether it can be demanded or only earned, and how our own nervous system, childhood experiences, and expectations shape the way we perceive it.
We explore:
What we often label as “disrespect” (in kids, partners, and even ourselves)The difference between behavior, boundaries, and meaning-makingHow respect is built through connection, safety, and modelingPractical ways to give respect first—without abandoning yourselfThis conversation is an invitation to soften, reflect, and reframe—so we can show up with more clarity and compassion in our relationships.
Mellow Moments:Gentle pauses, grounding reflections, and simple practices for real-time nervous system support.
Resources:Visit www.themellowmama.org for courses, guides, and supportive resources to help you parent (and live) with more ease and intention.
Connect with The Mellow Mama:
Instagram: @themellowmamaTikTok: @themellowmama_YouTube: The Mellow MamaWebsite: www.themellowmama.org
If this episode resonates, share it with a friend or leave a review— I'm grateful for you.
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We throw the word disrespect around a lot, but what does it actually mean? In this episode, we slow things down and take a closer look at what respect truly is, whether it can be demanded or only earned, and how our own nervous system, childhood experiences, and expectations shape the way we perceive it. We explore: What we often label as “disrespect” (in kids, partners, and even ourselves)The difference between behavior, boundaries, and meaning-makingHow respect is built through connection, safety, and modelingPractical ways to give respect first—without abandoning yourselfThis conversation is an invitation to soften, reflect, and reframe—so we can show up with more clarity and compassion in our relationships. Mellow Moments:Gentle pauses, grounding reflections, and simple practices for real-time nervous system support. Resources:Visit www.themellowmama.org for courses, guides, and supportive resources to help you parent (and live) with more ease and intention. Connect with The Mellow Mama: Instagram: @themellowmamaTikTok: @themellowmama_YouTube: The Mellow MamaWebsite: www.themellowmama.org If this episode resonates, share it with a friend or leave a review— I'm grateful for you.