Nothing is wrong with you, for needing more time
Mon Jan 12 2026
Nothing Is Wrong With You for Needing More Time
This episode is a refusal.
I talk about closing the office down—and what happens when you stop forcing motion just to look alive. Stillness isn’t laziness; it’s alignment. It’s the moment the soul stops performing readiness and finally tells the truth. Because nothing essential aligns in haste. Ever.
We get into silence—not the cute, aesthetic kind, but the uncomfortable kind where clarity starts forming bones. When life gets loud, stillness is how you hear yourself again. Becoming doesn’t happen on the surface. Alignment doesn’t announce itself. It works underground, unnoticed, while the world is busy clapping for noise.
There’s also a heavy, honest conversation around exclusion—how systems reward urgency and punish those who need time, rest, or space to metabolize their becoming. Who gets left behind when speed becomes a moral virtue?
This episode is for anyone who’s been made to feel broken for moving slower, pausing longer, or choosing quiet over performance. Nothing is wrong with you.
What survives the quiet is what belongs to you.
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Nothing Is Wrong With You for Needing More Time This episode is a refusal. I talk about closing the office down—and what happens when you stop forcing motion just to look alive. Stillness isn’t laziness; it’s alignment. It’s the moment the soul stops performing readiness and finally tells the truth. Because nothing essential aligns in haste. Ever. We get into silence—not the cute, aesthetic kind, but the uncomfortable kind where clarity starts forming bones. When life gets loud, stillness is how you hear yourself again. Becoming doesn’t happen on the surface. Alignment doesn’t announce itself. It works underground, unnoticed, while the world is busy clapping for noise. There’s also a heavy, honest conversation around exclusion—how systems reward urgency and punish those who need time, rest, or space to metabolize their becoming. Who gets left behind when speed becomes a moral virtue? This episode is for anyone who’s been made to feel broken for moving slower, pausing longer, or choosing quiet over performance. Nothing is wrong with you. What survives the quiet is what belongs to you.