Dr. Joshua Gebhardt's Queer Journey: Faith, Marriage, and Finding Himself (Part 2)
Mon Jan 26 2026
In Part 2, Dr. Joshua Gebhardt (a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with mixed-orientation couples) turns the lens inward and shares his own personal story — growing up in a conservative Christian environment, navigating masculinity as a college athlete, entering a mixed-orientation marriage himself, and slowly coming to terms with his gay identity. He reflects on the role of religion, shame, repression, and community expectations, and how those experiences ultimately shaped both his life and his work as a therapist. We also discussed how his own experience of coming out to his wife and ultimately divorcing informs his approach with clients. This is an honest look at untangling who you were taught to be from who you truly are — and how that journey can transform the way you help others do the same.
The Gebhardt Group: https://www.thegebhardtgroup.co/home
Email Joshua directly: josh@gebhardtgroup.co
Sign up for Dr. Gebhardt’s Group, “Women Navigating Marriages with Gay or Bisexual Men”: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe-0jju_kpELwu9HPnwP6LA720NcnkYR7UR3lGRcdedqrWqgg/viewform
Support for people in Mixed-Orientation Marriages:
HOW (Husbands Out to Wives): https://how-support.org/
GAMMA: https://www.gammasupport.org/
MOR (Mixed-Orientation Marriages) & More: https://www.morandmore.org/
Mixed Orientation Marriage: Pathways to Success (Free E-Book): https://mixedorientation.com/
AlternatePath (for women who have discovered their husbands are bi or gay): https://groups.io/g/AlternatePath
(Note: these show notes previously and erroneously mentioned "OurPath", which is not my recommendation and which has been traumatic for people I've spoken to.)
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In Part 2, Dr. Joshua Gebhardt (a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in working with mixed-orientation couples) turns the lens inward and shares his own personal story — growing up in a conservative Christian environment, navigating masculinity as a college athlete, entering a mixed-orientation marriage himself, and slowly coming to terms with his gay identity. He reflects on the role of religion, shame, repression, and community expectations, and how those experiences ultimately shaped both his life and his work as a therapist. We also discussed how his own experience of coming out to his wife and ultimately divorcing informs his approach with clients. This is an honest look at untangling who you were taught to be from who you truly are — and how that journey can transform the way you help others do the same. The Gebhardt Group: https://www.thegebhardtgroup.co/home Email Joshua directly: josh@gebhardtgroup.co Sign up for Dr. Gebhardt’s Group, “Women Navigating Marriages with Gay or Bisexual Men”: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe-0jju_kpELwu9HPnwP6LA720NcnkYR7UR3lGRcdedqrWqgg/viewform Support for people in Mixed-Orientation Marriages: HOW (Husbands Out to Wives): https://how-support.org/ GAMMA: https://www.gammasupport.org/ MOR (Mixed-Orientation Marriages) & More: https://www.morandmore.org/ Mixed Orientation Marriage: Pathways to Success (Free E-Book): https://mixedorientation.com/ AlternatePath (for women who have discovered their husbands are bi or gay): https://groups.io/g/AlternatePath (Note: these show notes previously and erroneously mentioned "OurPath", which is not my recommendation and which has been traumatic for people I've spoken to.) More from Rob & Two Bi Guys: Support Two Bi Guys on Patreon! (Bonus content, early access, and more) https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen Two Bi Guys on YouTube: youtube.com/@twobiguys Subscribe to my newsletter (for updates on group coaching and more): https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/newsletter Book a free intro call with me (re: individual coaching): https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/25-minute-free-intro-call Attend “Fluid Conversations”: https://calendly.com/robertbrookscohen/fluid-conversations Visit my website: https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/ Follow TBG on IG (and message me for direct correspondence): https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/