#383: From External Success to Inner Struggle: Lousin Mehrabi in Conversation with Spencer Lodge on Rejection, Family Pressure & Finding Self-Worth
Mon Feb 02 2026
In this conversation, Lousin Mehrabi sits down with Spencer Lodge for an open and reflective discussion that goes beyond surface-level success. Through thoughtful questioning, Lousin encourages Spencer to open up about the gap between external achievement and internal fulfillment and how family expectations, particularly his relationship with his father, shaped his drive and self-perception.
Spencer reflects on navigating rejection, pressure, and self-doubt, and how resilience, forgiveness, and self-awareness helped him redefine success on his own terms. The conversation also explores the impact of parenting, gratitude, and meaningful connection on personal growth. Spencer shares lessons from his journey in sales, life in Dubai, and using success as a platform for purpose through charity work and storytelling, including a documentary focused on resilience and human impact. A grounded, honest exchange about turning pressure into progress and ambition into something that truly matters.
00:00 The Illusion of Success
02:54 The Weight of Expectations
06:09 The Burden of Shame
08:59 The Struggle with Self-Perception
12:00 The Relentless Pursuit of Achievement
15:05 The Challenge of Connection
18:10 The Impact of Family Dynamics
20:57 The Journey of Forgiveness
24:05 The Role of Parenting
27:10 The Power of Resilience
30:03 The Path to Financial Success
32:57 The Fear of Rejection
45:42 The Numbers Game of Rejection
48:10 Learning the Sales Process
54:51 The Journey Through Different Countries
57:39 Life in Dubai: A Personal Perspective
01:00:13 Helping Others: The Power of Charity
01:08:30 The Documentary: A Story of Resilience
01:13:42 The Inner Struggle: Balancing Success and Responsibility
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In this conversation, Lousin Mehrabi sits down with Spencer Lodge for an open and reflective discussion that goes beyond surface-level success. Through thoughtful questioning, Lousin encourages Spencer to open up about the gap between external achievement and internal fulfillment and how family expectations, particularly his relationship with his father, shaped his drive and self-perception. Spencer reflects on navigating rejection, pressure, and self-doubt, and how resilience, forgiveness, and self-awareness helped him redefine success on his own terms. The conversation also explores the impact of parenting, gratitude, and meaningful connection on personal growth. Spencer shares lessons from his journey in sales, life in Dubai, and using success as a platform for purpose through charity work and storytelling, including a documentary focused on resilience and human impact. A grounded, honest exchange about turning pressure into progress and ambition into something that truly matters. 00:00 The Illusion of Success 02:54 The Weight of Expectations 06:09 The Burden of Shame 08:59 The Struggle with Self-Perception 12:00 The Relentless Pursuit of Achievement 15:05 The Challenge of Connection 18:10 The Impact of Family Dynamics 20:57 The Journey of Forgiveness 24:05 The Role of Parenting 27:10 The Power of Resilience 30:03 The Path to Financial Success 32:57 The Fear of Rejection 45:42 The Numbers Game of Rejection 48:10 Learning the Sales Process 54:51 The Journey Through Different Countries 57:39 Life in Dubai: A Personal Perspective 01:00:13 Helping Others: The Power of Charity 01:08:30 The Documentary: A Story of Resilience 01:13:42 The Inner Struggle: Balancing Success and Responsibility Show Sponsors: AYS Developers: A design-focused company dedicated to crafting exceptional homes, vibrant communities, and inspiring lifestyle experiences. https://bit.ly/AYS-Developers Follow Spencer Lodge on Social Media https://www.instagram.com/madeindubaipodcast/?hl=en https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61586194260076 https://www.instagram.com/spencer.lodge/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@spencer.lodge https://www.linkedin.com/in/spencerlodge/ https://www.youtube.com/c/SpencerLodgeTV https://www.facebook.com/spencerlodgeofficial/ Follow Lousin Mehrabi on Social Media https://www.instagram.com/lousinmehrabi https://www.youtube.com/@lousinmehrabi https://www.linkedin.com/in/lousin-mehrabi