Leading In Public Without Losing Yourself – with Melanie Borden | S6 E06
Thu Feb 05 2026
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Most leaders don’t lose trust because of a bad post—they lose it in the silent spaces where replies never come, assistants answer for them, and messages drift away from the expertise that made them credible. That’s why this conversation goes straight to the root: aligning who you are with how you show up in public, so visibility becomes leadership, not performance.
We sit down with executive visibility strategist and author Melanie Borden to map the difference between credible and performative visibility, and how to sense when you’re crossing the line by chasing algorithms or trends. Melanie explains why trust is built in comments and DMs, not just in keynotes and thought pieces, and how to avoid the common missteps that erode confidence before you speak. We dig into the fears that hold experienced leaders back—overediting, legal bottlenecks, and groupthink—and we offer a practical reset: speak from lived experience, define guardrails, and let your distinct point of view lead.
AI has reshaped search and discovery, but it can’t manufacture presence. Melanie shows how to use AI as a thought partner without diluting your voice, then shares non-traditional KPIs that capture real influence: dark social signals, silent followers who surface months later, and even negative comments as proof of impact. The ripple effects inside a company are real—when executives lead in public, teams gain permission, recruiting gets easier, and customers see people instead of a logo. We close with a simple mindset tool to quiet imposter syndrome: keep receipts of your wins, revisit them, and move forward with clarity.
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This episode was recorded through a Descript call on January 6, 2026. Read the blog article and show notes here: https://webdrie.net/leading-in-public-without-losing-yourself-with-melanie-borden/
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Send us a text Most leaders don’t lose trust because of a bad post—they lose it in the silent spaces where replies never come, assistants answer for them, and messages drift away from the expertise that made them credible. That’s why this conversation goes straight to the root: aligning who you are with how you show up in public, so visibility becomes leadership, not performance. We sit down with executive visibility strategist and author Melanie Borden to map the difference between credible and performative visibility, and how to sense when you’re crossing the line by chasing algorithms or trends. Melanie explains why trust is built in comments and DMs, not just in keynotes and thought pieces, and how to avoid the common missteps that erode confidence before you speak. We dig into the fears that hold experienced leaders back—overediting, legal bottlenecks, and groupthink—and we offer a practical reset: speak from lived experience, define guardrails, and let your distinct point of view lead. AI has reshaped search and discovery, but it can’t manufacture presence. Melanie shows how to use AI as a thought partner without diluting your voice, then shares non-traditional KPIs that capture real influence: dark social signals, silent followers who surface months later, and even negative comments as proof of impact. The ripple effects inside a company are real—when executives lead in public, teams gain permission, recruiting gets easier, and customers see people instead of a logo. We close with a simple mindset tool to quiet imposter syndrome: keep receipts of your wins, revisit them, and move forward with clarity. If this resonated, follow, share with a colleague who needs it, and leave a quick review—your feedback helps more leaders find the show. This episode was recorded through a Descript call on January 6, 2026. Read the blog article and show notes here: https://webdrie.net/leading-in-public-without-losing-yourself-with-melanie-borden/ .......................................................................... 📘 Read The Future CMO: Amazon 👥 Join the Future CMO Community 🌿 Explore Sintra Synergies Retreat 💼 Connect on LinkedIn ..........................................................................