Ep. 93: How Shalini Manifested the Love of Her Life (with Boundaries, Vision & a Google Doc)
Thu Nov 06 2025
A Conscious Love Story with Shalini & Oz | Relationship Goals, Secure Attachment, & Lifestyle Design
What happens when a woman becomes the partner she’s always wanted—and then calls in the love of her life?
In this heart-melting episode, I sit down with Shalini and her beloved Oz to share their real-life love story—a story that started inside the Aligned Attraction mentorship and blossomed into a deep, secure, playful, and visionary relationship. From celibacy and inner healing to boundary-setting, Google Docs, and future Excel spreadsheets (yes, really)—you’ll hear how two intentional humans created a relationship rooted in soul, structure, and laughter.
Whether you’re single and intentional, partnered and growing, or just love a good love story, this episode will soften your heart and remind you what’s possible when you lead with self-love.
💡 What You’ll Hear:How Shalini called in her partner through deep self-work and aligned boundariesThe role of the “Date Me Doc” in Oz’s playful, intentional search for loveWhat made both of them say “I’m in” (and take each other off the market)How they navigate conflict, build safety, and come back to connectionTheir approach to future planning, lifestyle design, and conscious parenting visionWhy knowing your inner child’s wounds helps you stop repeating the same patternsWhat it looks like to hold polarity: the King & the Kid, the Sword & the Ocean
✨ This is for you if:You’re ready to call in your person from a place of wholeness (not hustle)You want to hear what actually builds safety, attraction, and longevity in loveYou crave a relationship where you can be your full, goofy, glorious selfYou’re done with dating burnout and want a new path forward
🔍 If you’ve searched:“how to call in your life partner”“dating with intention"“conscious relationships/conscious relating"“how to create secure attachment in dating”“love after healing journey”
This episode is for you!
🧠 Mentioned in this Episode:Inside the Sexy Secure Love system (that we teach in our mentorship program for women in relationships)Polarity, secure attachment, emotional rangeThe “Date Me Doc” trend + creative matchmaking strategiesLifestyle planning for couples (travel, kids, community & career)Conflict repair, feminine receptivity, and masculine directnessMonthly relationship check-ins + shared “love lists”
💬 The Untamed MomentThe moment Oz says he can be both the King and the Kid in Shalini’s presence… and she lets him.
This is what happens when you build safety together.
(Spoiler: this is the love we’re all worthy of.)
💌 Drop a comment: What part of this love story hit home for you?
#consciousrelationship #relationshipgoals #secureattachment #feminineenergy #manifestyourpartner #datingwithintention #relationshipadvice #loveafterhealing #alignedattraction #sexysecurelove #untamedlove
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A Conscious Love Story with Shalini & Oz | Relationship Goals, Secure Attachment, & Lifestyle Design What happens when a woman becomes the partner she’s always wanted—and then calls in the love of her life? In this heart-melting episode, I sit down with Shalini and her beloved Oz to share their real-life love story—a story that started inside the Aligned Attraction mentorship and blossomed into a deep, secure, playful, and visionary relationship. From celibacy and inner healing to boundary-setting, Google Docs, and future Excel spreadsheets (yes, really)—you’ll hear how two intentional humans created a relationship rooted in soul, structure, and laughter. Whether you’re single and intentional, partnered and growing, or just love a good love story, this episode will soften your heart and remind you what’s possible when you lead with self-love. 💡 What You’ll Hear:How Shalini called in her partner through deep self-work and aligned boundariesThe role of the “Date Me Doc” in Oz’s playful, intentional search for loveWhat made both of them say “I’m in” (and take each other off the market)How they navigate conflict, build safety, and come back to connectionTheir approach to future planning, lifestyle design, and conscious parenting visionWhy knowing your inner child’s wounds helps you stop repeating the same patternsWhat it looks like to hold polarity: the King & the Kid, the Sword & the Ocean ✨ This is for you if:You’re ready to call in your person from a place of wholeness (not hustle)You want to hear what actually builds safety, attraction, and longevity in loveYou crave a relationship where you can be your full, goofy, glorious selfYou’re done with dating burnout and want a new path forward 🔍 If you’ve searched:“how to call in your life partner”“dating with intention"“conscious relationships/conscious relating"“how to create secure attachment in dating”“love after healing journey” This episode is for you! 🧠 Mentioned in this Episode:Inside the Sexy Secure Love system (that we teach in our mentorship program for women in relationships)Polarity, secure attachment, emotional rangeThe “Date Me Doc” trend + creative matchmaking strategiesLifestyle planning for couples (travel, kids, community & career)Conflict repair, feminine receptivity, and masculine directnessMonthly relationship check-ins + shared “love lists” 💬 The Untamed MomentThe moment Oz says he can be both the King and the Kid in Shalini’s presence… and she lets him. This is what happens when you build safety together. (Spoiler: this is the love we’re all worthy of.) 💌 Drop a comment: What part of this love story hit home for you? #consciousrelationship #relationshipgoals #secureattachment #feminineenergy #manifestyourpartner #datingwithintention #relationshipadvice #loveafterhealing #alignedattraction #sexysecurelove #untamedlove