235. Dating Red Flags That Predict Domestic Inequity w/ Laura Danger
Fri Feb 06 2026
Author and educator Laura Danger (@thatdarnchat) brought weaponized incompetence and the nag paradox into the mainstream, and today she's here to talk about how these dynamics can show up way before you're married with kids. We get into the early warning signs of domestic inequity you can spot while dating, the green flags that actually matter for a long-term partnership, and what a truly collaborative relationship looks like day to day. Plus, Laura shares her unexpectedly romantic love story, we unpack why "happy wife, happy life" makes me cringe, and we tackle a dating dilemma from someone who started dating their roommate.
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Author and educator Laura Danger (@thatdarnchat) brought weaponized incompetence and the nag paradox into the mainstream, and today she's here to talk about how these dynamics can show up way before you're married with kids. We get into the early warning signs of domestic inequity you can spot while dating, the green flags that actually matter for a long-term partnership, and what a truly collaborative relationship looks like day to day. Plus, Laura shares her unexpectedly romantic love story, we unpack why "happy wife, happy life" makes me cringe, and we tackle a dating dilemma from someone who started dating their roommate. Check out Laura's amazing book, No More Mediocre: A Call To Reimagine Our Relationships And Demand More THANKS TO OUR PARTNERS Meundies: Get up to 50% off on underwear with code DATING! meundies.com/dating Quince: Get free shipping & 365-day returns on luxe basics, bedding, and more. quince.com/talia Pique Life: Unlock 20% off your first order! piquelife.com/dating Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions easily and manage your finances with Rocket Money! Go to rocketmoney.com/dating to get started. AG1: Go to drinkag1.com/dating and get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2 when you first subscribe! Olive & June: DIY salon-level nails! Get 20% off your first mani system at oliveandjune.com/dating20 JOIN THE COMMUNITY datingintentionallypod.com/community CONNECT WITH ME: Ask a question for me to answer on the pod Slide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally MORE FREE ADVICE & CONTENT Free texting templates & dating FAQ guide Get more dating advice from me on YouTube SUPPORT THE POD Rate on Apple See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.