Owning Your Voice: Shame, Resilience, and Truth-Telling with Allison Lane
Tue Jun 24 2025
What if the story you’re most afraid to tell is the one that holds the key to healing—not just for you, but for others too?
Allison Lane has built a career helping authors, leaders, and everyday truth-tellers shape their stories and bring their messages into the world. A story strategist and messaging expert with a background in big-brand marketing, she now guides people through the vulnerable, transformative work of telling the truth—on the page and beyond.
But behind her sharp strategic mind and no-fluff approach is a life shaped by experiences that would leave most people asking, “How did you survive that?”
In this episode of I Don’t Know How You Do It, we talk about what it really means to own your voice—from the stories that shimmer in shame to the ones that help others heal. Allison shares her personal journey from surviving a traumatic childhood to building a thriving business helping others share their expertise and write their books.
Whether you're wondering how to tell your story, navigating shame from the past, or dreaming of writing a memoir or launching a message-driven career, this conversation offers wisdom, hope, and clarity.
You'll learn:
Why shame simmers in secrecy—and what happens when we say it out loudWhat resilience really looks like (hint: it’s not about being tough)How to move from surviving to shaping a message that makes an impactWhy your “obvious” story might be exactly what someone else needs to hearThe difference between surviving and healing—and how storytelling can be the bridgeWhat to do if you want to write a book or tell your story but don’t know where to beginLearn more about Allison:
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What if the story you’re most afraid to tell is the one that holds the key to healing—not just for you, but for others too? Allison Lane has built a career helping authors, leaders, and everyday truth-tellers shape their stories and bring their messages into the world. A story strategist and messaging expert with a background in big-brand marketing, she now guides people through the vulnerable, transformative work of telling the truth—on the page and beyond. But behind her sharp strategic mind and no-fluff approach is a life shaped by experiences that would leave most people asking, “How did you survive that?” In this episode of I Don’t Know How You Do It, we talk about what it really means to own your voice—from the stories that shimmer in shame to the ones that help others heal. Allison shares her personal journey from surviving a traumatic childhood to building a thriving business helping others share their expertise and write their books. Whether you're wondering how to tell your story, navigating shame from the past, or dreaming of writing a memoir or launching a message-driven career, this conversation offers wisdom, hope, and clarity. You'll learn: Why shame simmers in secrecy—and what happens when we say it out loudWhat resilience really looks like (hint: it’s not about being tough)How to move from surviving to shaping a message that makes an impactWhy your “obvious” story might be exactly what someone else needs to hearThe difference between surviving and healing—and how storytelling can be the bridgeWhat to do if you want to write a book or tell your story but don’t know where to beginLearn more about Allison: Website LinkedIn YouTube Facebook Instagram Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts "This is my go-to podcast for inspiration and to discover new approaches to embrace the challenges in my life." If that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me reach more people -- just like you -- find strategies and insights to do the things that feel undoable. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode! Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. Follow now! Sign up for my newsletter and learn more about these remarkable stories at www.jessicafeinstories.com Order Jessica's memoir, Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes Watch Jessica's TedX Talk Music credit: Limitless by Bells