#397 The Relationship Bucket
Mon Feb 02 2026
What does it take to create a beautiful and safe relationship? In this episode I am revisiting combining two analogies I've used before, the bucket analogy and the relationship circle, and I'm calling it the Relationship Bucket. How do we fill this bucket up? Who is responsible for filling it? What things will fill it? Is how women fill it different than how men fill it? All of these questions and more are part of our discussion today.
Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts:
#148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify
#161 Developing More Intimacy in Your Relationships on Apple on Spotify
#174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify
#201 The Tolerable Life on Apple on Spotify
#215 Being Seen and Being Heard on Apple on Spotify
#216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify
#218 Honest Relationships on Apple on Spotify
#233 Having Tough Discussions on Apple on Spotify
#238 Overflow on Apple on Spotify
#239 How to Own Your Own on Apple on Spotify
#242 Circling Back Around on Apple on Spotify
#243 Having More Honest Communication on Apple on Spotify
#244 The Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify
#271 Equal Partnerships on Apple on Spotify
#272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify
#277 Your Spouse Is Not Your Responsibility on Apple on Spotif
#289 Why Our Relationships Needs Validation on Apple on Spotify
#290 Resentment and Contempt in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify
#295 Safety in the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify
#296 Creating More Safety in Your Relationship on Apple on Spotify
#298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify
#304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify
#319 Get Ready to Rock The Boat on Apple on Spotify
#326 Stop Being Right, Start Being Safe on Apple on Spotify
#331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify
#332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify
#333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify
#334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify
#341 Choosing to Be All In on Apple on Spotify
#359 10 Ways to Be a Safer Spouse on Apple on Spotify
#375 Sense of Self and the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify
#384 Relational Living on Apple on Spotify
#389 The Partnership of Marriage on Apple on Spotify
#390 You Can't Fill Their Bucket on Apple on Spotify
#396 How to Have an Easy Relationship on Apple on Spotify
Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options:
Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching
Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion. You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching
Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me? Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/
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What does it take to create a beautiful and safe relationship? In this episode I am revisiting combining two analogies I've used before, the bucket analogy and the relationship circle, and I'm calling it the Relationship Bucket. How do we fill this bucket up? Who is responsible for filling it? What things will fill it? Is how women fill it different than how men fill it? All of these questions and more are part of our discussion today. Thanks for listening! Want to learn more about this concept? Check out these podcasts: #148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #161 Developing More Intimacy in Your Relationships on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #201 The Tolerable Life on Apple on Spotify #215 Being Seen and Being Heard on Apple on Spotify #216 One Up and One Down Relationships on Apple on Spotify #218 Honest Relationships on Apple on Spotify #233 Having Tough Discussions on Apple on Spotify #238 Overflow on Apple on Spotify #239 How to Own Your Own on Apple on Spotify #242 Circling Back Around on Apple on Spotify #243 Having More Honest Communication on Apple on Spotify #244 The Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify #271 Equal Partnerships on Apple on Spotify #272 Stay In Your Lane on Apple on Spotify #277 Your Spouse Is Not Your Responsibility on Apple on Spotif #289 Why Our Relationships Needs Validation on Apple on Spotify #290 Resentment and Contempt in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #295 Safety in the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify #296 Creating More Safety in Your Relationship on Apple on Spotify #298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify #319 Get Ready to Rock The Boat on Apple on Spotify #326 Stop Being Right, Start Being Safe on Apple on Spotify #331 Sense of Self on Apple on Spotify #332 Sense of Self – It's All In Your Head on Apple on Spotify #333 Sense of Self and Dating on Apple on Spotify #334 Sense of Self and Marriage on Apple on Spotify #341 Choosing to Be All In on Apple on Spotify #359 10 Ways to Be a Safer Spouse on Apple on Spotify #375 Sense of Self and the Relationship Circle on Apple on Spotify #384 Relational Living on Apple on Spotify #389 The Partnership of Marriage on Apple on Spotify #390 You Can't Fill Their Bucket on Apple on Spotify #396 How to Have an Easy Relationship on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion. You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me? Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/