I Thought We Were Becoming Friends…But I Was Wrong
Sun Feb 08 2026
Making new friends in midlife can be exciting, but it can also sometimes be unexpectedly painful.
Especially when you open your heart, make the effort, and believe a real connection is forming with someone new...only to realize the feeling isn't mutual.
In this episode of Life Is Now… Do It While You Can, Suzanne Oshima, Life Coach for Women in Midlife, shares a personal story about trying to build a new friendship after moving across the country…and the quiet disappointment that came when the effort wasn't returned.
Suzanne reflects on how meaningful conversations and shared moments created the hope of a real friendship…
But over time, the truth became clear…not everyone who appears to want to be your friend, is meant to be your friend.
Instead of spiraling into rejection or self-doubt, Suzanne shares the mindset shift that helped her find peace, clarity, and acceptance.
This is real, heartfelt life coaching for women who want to make new friends in midlife, build meaningful friendships, and understand the emotional lessons that can come with putting themselves out there to make new friends in midlife.
If you're a woman in midlife or over 50 who has ever felt hurt, confused, or discouraged while trying to make new friends in midlife, this episode will help you release disappointment, trust what people show you, and refocus on the friendships that truly matter…the ones who show up, follow through, and are there for you no matter what.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why not everyone you meet is meant to be your friend…and why that's OK How actions and consistency reveal who truly wants to be in your life How disappointment can bring clarity about the kind of friendships you truly want If you've ever struggled while trying to make new friends in midlife, this episode is a gentle reminder that friendship isn't about chasing connection… it's about recognizing who genuinely shows up for you.
Connect with Suzanne:
Suzanne's Website: https://suzanneoshima.com
Join The Circle of Love Sisterhood: https://suzanneoshima.com/circle-of-love-sisterhood/
It's Never Too Late to Make New Friends eBook: https://suzanneoshima.com/friends-ebook/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fb.suzanneoshima
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_oshima/
More
Making new friends in midlife can be exciting, but it can also sometimes be unexpectedly painful. Especially when you open your heart, make the effort, and believe a real connection is forming with someone new...only to realize the feeling isn't mutual. In this episode of Life Is Now… Do It While You Can, Suzanne Oshima, Life Coach for Women in Midlife, shares a personal story about trying to build a new friendship after moving across the country…and the quiet disappointment that came when the effort wasn't returned. Suzanne reflects on how meaningful conversations and shared moments created the hope of a real friendship… But over time, the truth became clear…not everyone who appears to want to be your friend, is meant to be your friend. Instead of spiraling into rejection or self-doubt, Suzanne shares the mindset shift that helped her find peace, clarity, and acceptance. This is real, heartfelt life coaching for women who want to make new friends in midlife, build meaningful friendships, and understand the emotional lessons that can come with putting themselves out there to make new friends in midlife. If you're a woman in midlife or over 50 who has ever felt hurt, confused, or discouraged while trying to make new friends in midlife, this episode will help you release disappointment, trust what people show you, and refocus on the friendships that truly matter…the ones who show up, follow through, and are there for you no matter what. In this episode, you'll learn: Why not everyone you meet is meant to be your friend…and why that's OK How actions and consistency reveal who truly wants to be in your life How disappointment can bring clarity about the kind of friendships you truly want If you've ever struggled while trying to make new friends in midlife, this episode is a gentle reminder that friendship isn't about chasing connection… it's about recognizing who genuinely shows up for you. Connect with Suzanne: Suzanne's Website: https://suzanneoshima.com Join The Circle of Love Sisterhood: https://suzanneoshima.com/circle-of-love-sisterhood/ It's Never Too Late to Make New Friends eBook: https://suzanneoshima.com/friends-ebook/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fb.suzanneoshima Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suzanne_oshima/