Why Modern Men Feel Unanchored: Data, Identity, and Purpose in a Changing World with Kirk Kappelhoff
Fri Feb 06 2026
What’s really happening beneath modern masculinity—beyond stereotypes, blame, or culture wars? In this episode of Mind Over Masculinity, guest Kirk Kappelhoff breaks down the macro trends shaping men’s lives today: identity confusion, loneliness, social withdrawal, and a shrinking sense of purpose.
Hosted by Sana, this conversation is for anyone who wants a clearer, more grounded view of what men are navigating—and how those shifts impact relationships, families, and society. You’ll leave with practical insight on redefining identity, building purpose, and strengthening emotional awareness without losing strength.
About the Guest:
Kirk Kappelhoff is the author of Alpha: Eight Challenges of the Modern Man and creates research-backed content on masculinity, mental health, purpose, and emotional intelligence. He shares his work on YouTube and at Project Alpha.
Key Takeaways:
Separate identity from income: self-worth can’t be reduced to salary or net worth.
Rebuild social connection: the “friendship recession” is real—prioritize time with people.
Create purpose intentionally through work, relationships, and meaning-making in hardship.
Name emotions to process them better and reduce emotional shutdown.
Social media can fuel comparison and entitlement—use it consciously, not compulsively.
How to Connect With the Guest:
YouTube and website: https://projectalpha8.com/
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What’s really happening beneath modern masculinity—beyond stereotypes, blame, or culture wars? In this episode of Mind Over Masculinity, guest Kirk Kappelhoff breaks down the macro trends shaping men’s lives today: identity confusion, loneliness, social withdrawal, and a shrinking sense of purpose. Hosted by Sana, this conversation is for anyone who wants a clearer, more grounded view of what men are navigating—and how those shifts impact relationships, families, and society. You’ll leave with practical insight on redefining identity, building purpose, and strengthening emotional awareness without losing strength. About the Guest: Kirk Kappelhoff is the author of Alpha: Eight Challenges of the Modern Man and creates research-backed content on masculinity, mental health, purpose, and emotional intelligence. He shares his work on YouTube and at Project Alpha. Key Takeaways: Separate identity from income: self-worth can’t be reduced to salary or net worth. Rebuild social connection: the “friendship recession” is real—prioritize time with people. Create purpose intentionally through work, relationships, and meaning-making in hardship. Name emotions to process them better and reduce emotional shutdown. Social media can fuel comparison and entitlement—use it consciously, not compulsively. How to Connect With the Guest: YouTube and website: https://projectalpha8.com/ Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #MindOverMasculinity #MensMentalHealth #ModernMasculinity #EmotionalIntelligence #PurposeDrivenLife #LonelinessEpidemic #IdentityAndPurpose #HealthyRelationships #MentalStrength #SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #MasculinityRedefined #WellbeingJourney