44: One Simple Shift to End the “Not Good Enough” Pattern
Tue Jan 20 2026
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The belief that you’re not enough may be learned AND reversible.
This episode explores how the belief of not being good enough is rooted in survival patterns and the brain’s ability to adapt and reinforce what once ensured acceptance. Early attention tied to performance taught the subconscious mind to link success with worth. In modern life, this limiting belief holds people back. When questioned, the idea of “good enough” quickly collapses. Releasing it starts by recognizing it as untrue, then gently correcting it as it returns—supporting synaptic pruning, neurosculpting, and lasting emotional healing.
You’ll Learn:
[00:00] Introduction
[01:18] Why this belief often lives below awareness until it shows up emotionally
[02:36] How survival wiring teaches the brain to equate worth with acceptance
[04:12] What childhood attention and approval teach the nervous system about safety
[05:58] Why the brain keeps reinforcing this pattern long after survival is secured
[07:14] How questioning “being good enough” exposes how fragile the concept really is
[08:42] The mindset shift that supports synaptic pruning and belief rewiring
[10:26] Why noticing and correcting the belief matters more than eliminating it
[12:11] How this same process applies to other repeating limiting beliefs
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If you’re curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your goals, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz The belief that you’re not enough may be learned AND reversible. This episode explores how the belief of not being good enough is rooted in survival patterns and the brain’s ability to adapt and reinforce what once ensured acceptance. Early attention tied to performance taught the subconscious mind to link success with worth. In modern life, this limiting belief holds people back. When questioned, the idea of “good enough” quickly collapses. Releasing it starts by recognizing it as untrue, then gently correcting it as it returns—supporting synaptic pruning, neurosculpting, and lasting emotional healing. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [01:18] Why this belief often lives below awareness until it shows up emotionally [02:36] How survival wiring teaches the brain to equate worth with acceptance [04:12] What childhood attention and approval teach the nervous system about safety [05:58] Why the brain keeps reinforcing this pattern long after survival is secured [07:14] How questioning “being good enough” exposes how fragile the concept really is [08:42] The mindset shift that supports synaptic pruning and belief rewiring [10:26] Why noticing and correcting the belief matters more than eliminating it [12:11] How this same process applies to other repeating limiting beliefs Find More From Dr. Stephanie Davis: Dr. Stephanie Davis | Website Quantum Rx | Instagram Quantum Rx | Skool