Kat & Steve - Limbo Land
Sun Dec 21 2025
Stevie B and I talk about limbo land, that murky space so many people end up in early on in dating. The situationship. Not quite together. Not quite nothing.
We talk about how any interaction between two people is a relationship, whether you label it or not. And how often one person is being clear about what they want, while the other is quietly hoping it’ll turn into something more.
We get into wishful thinking. Reading into moments. Convincing yourself that chemistry, closeness, or intimacy means commitment even when the words say otherwise.
I share honestly about our early days and how easy it is to override what’s being said because you want a different outcome.
This episode is about:
The cost of staying in the greyWhy clarity matters more than potentialHow self-respect gets eroded in limboAnd why honest communication is the only way outIf you’ve ever found yourself waiting, hoping, or trying to make something become what it isn’t this one will land.
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Stevie B and I talk about limbo land, that murky space so many people end up in early on in dating. The situationship. Not quite together. Not quite nothing. We talk about how any interaction between two people is a relationship, whether you label it or not. And how often one person is being clear about what they want, while the other is quietly hoping it’ll turn into something more. We get into wishful thinking. Reading into moments. Convincing yourself that chemistry, closeness, or intimacy means commitment even when the words say otherwise. I share honestly about our early days and how easy it is to override what’s being said because you want a different outcome. This episode is about: The cost of staying in the greyWhy clarity matters more than potentialHow self-respect gets eroded in limboAnd why honest communication is the only way outIf you’ve ever found yourself waiting, hoping, or trying to make something become what it isn’t this one will land. Read my book, Authentic - coming home to your true self - AUS, EUR, USA Authentic The Program - sign up here Coach with me 1:1 - Book a 20-minute call now The Good Life - sign up now One-day retreat - March 20th, 2026 Write into us - let us know what you want to hear WelleCo - use code KAT15 for 15% off welleco.com.au www.katjohn.com.au Support the show