Self-Love Practice: Day 8 â Love Yourself When You Feel Unchosen
Sun Feb 08 2026
The Happier Life Project's Self-Love Sessions
Few things hurt as quietly as feeling unchosen; not picked, not invited, not replied to, not prioritised. And when it happens, itâs easy to turn that pain into proof that something is wrong with you.
In Day 8 of 14 Days of Self-Love, we practise loving ourselves through those moments - not by pretending they donât hurt, but by staying with ourselves when they do.
Youâll explore:
⢠What it means to feel unchosen
⢠How to stop turning pain into identity
⢠Becoming the one who chooses you
⢠Offering yourself what you hoped to receive from others
Being unchosen does not make you unlovable.
You are already enough, even when it hurts.
To download the free My Possible Self App: https://mypossibleself.app.link/podcast
To follow My Possible Self on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypossibleself/
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The Happier Life Project's Self-Love Sessions Few things hurt as quietly as feeling unchosen; not picked, not invited, not replied to, not prioritised. And when it happens, itâs easy to turn that pain into proof that something is wrong with you. In Day 8 of 14 Days of Self-Love, we practise loving ourselves through those moments - not by pretending they donât hurt, but by staying with ourselves when they do. Youâll explore: ⢠What it means to feel unchosen ⢠How to stop turning pain into identity ⢠Becoming the one who chooses you ⢠Offering yourself what you hoped to receive from others Being unchosen does not make you unlovable. You are already enough, even when it hurts. To download the free My Possible Self App: https://mypossibleself.app.link/podcast To follow My Possible Self on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mypossibleself/